Last weekend I was invited over by a girl from Germany to stay at her place for the weekend. SHe would show me around. I had zero sexual rapport with her and decided to see if she was game when I got there.
SHe told me after an hour she is in a LTR, so I did not game her and decided to give her a battlefield promotion to wingwoman haha
However: I only did this in my mind. I decided not to talk to much about picking up women, but just do it.
So that night, her, and 3 friends (a couple and a heavy AFC) went into a club. First the AFC said he didn't have a girlfriend, so I told him I would get him one. It would be fun to chase girls, it would be easy to open, since I'm foreign. The guy refused, but listned closely, when me and my friend were looking at a 4 set of HB's across the bar. I kept locking in EC with one of them, which came over after a while.
SHe was pissed though. SHe started shouting in German and I only understood half of it. SHe was asking why me and the AFC were looking at her. I stayed calm and told her I found her attractive. Despite the fact that she was a HB 8, she was extremely nervous. After I disarmed her, she focussed her anger on the AFC. They almost started a fight.
I calmed her down and pulled her toward me and told her I just want to talk to her. I actually pulled it off to change her state and we talked about travelling for a while and then she left.
My friend was amazed an I was enjoying this. If all I had to do was keep EC and chicks would come over, this was going to be an easy night.
I ran another good set and was isolated with a girl at the bar with my wingwomanon my other side. THe girl I gamed had some sort of issue with her ex, so I got blown out.
However, my wingwoman said: "well, it looks like you won't be needing to sleep at our place toninght" as if complimenting me on scoring a girl. I explained to her that the girl was not interested, but I thought the comment by the friend was weird. I was just talking and never got around to even kino.
I didn't game much after that, but the following 24 hours were weird.
The next day I spent a lot of time with my wingwoman and her other female friend, and I kind of got the feeling she was jealous or annoyed or something. SHe would get angty quickly and I had to wach my words not to get into an argument. In the end I started to notice that the other friend and me kind of got the same SPAM.
At night we visited some pubs and I gamed a 4 set as a form of enteratainment to my friends. I wasn't really out to score. After that we sat somewhere else, and my friend started pointing out to a girl and said she was beautiful. It was the alternative type looking girl. To me the opposito of the sexy club girls. She was kind of trying to convince me that the alternative girl is more beautiful, because she is more "herself" I disagreed and said I like the other girls better because its such a cool challenge ot break trough their shields. ONly the most brutal guys are allowed in their world. To score them is a compliment. I really meant this, but at the same time got aware I was IODing her. My wingwoman is very alternative and kind of LSE. It was showing now.
On our way back, she was extremely rude to me and her friend and just before we retired to our rooms she ended our conversation about the night saying that I was sad for looking at all these girls and trying to get their attention.
While I was laying in bed I was kind of hurt by her words. I was gaming hard, just to learn, to be honest, and wanted to see how my routines would work in field. However, I had hoped this would strenghten my bond with my friend and turn her into a good wingwomen, but now I had done the opposite.
How can I handle this in a future situation? Should I have been more honest in the beginning en tell her about PU? Or should I have given her more attention and keep the gaming more low key? I really feel I've been trying to hard to be the pimp and damaged our friendship...
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