as well as cosmetically like you said

im not crazy dude, i dont suffer from body dysmorphia, my problems were real not hallucinations.

if someone has the balls to pinpoint despite all the surgeries i´ve been through, what still is wrong with cosmetically, that guy deserves my respect.

im tired of being a freak that's it!!!!

I'll second this..

I was 40 pounds heavier than I am now a year ago, but you know what? I don't have a scale at home and I had no idea I lost any weight. People would say shit but I figured it was just 5 pounds or so. My pants fit loser, but all I could think of was " Shit.. did these things stretch?". I couldn't fathom that anything physically about me had changed because I always looked into the mirror and saw the same thing. I never wanted to lose weight, I never cared. I loved myself just the way I was and women haven't treated me different because I haven't treated myself different.

Its like an anorexic person who still sees themselves as fat no matter how skinny they are. I'm psychotically confident and so I always saw myself as a stud despite what I looked like. I believe you have the opposite thing working for you. I put up an article on WayOfThePlayer, about curing desperation.. I believe it holds one of the many answers your looking for. You must change the way you view yourself. All the surgery in the world won't change what YOU see, what YOU see is based off your own self perception.

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sure so this pm means what?

"man you legit look like a piece of dog****. i dont think there is any chance you can get an somewhat attractive girl unless you are making mad bank.
your only hope is the double jaw surgery...it improves the face of alot of people quite significantly...but still you will remain bald and thats really killing you man.
try to run escort-game man"

Lol

Either your trolling or like Peb said.. your problem goes beyond what a written forum is going to be able to help you with.

MY point in short was: All the change won't make a difference.. Women are more so responding to how you feel about yourself (your frame) than they are what you physically look like. Now it just so happens that the majority of guys who's physical features don't fit that of model ads feel down on themselves. And so they project that and allow their frame to be dominated by an attractive woman. You're frame, your vibe, and your emotional control gets you laid more than your looks do. I've worked with some of the best looking men i've seen by societal standards and they couldn't get laid either. Unless it was sheer luck or they were jumped by a drunk chick.

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It means that you talk to equally fucked up people.

It seems that you're clutching straws and looking for things to justify your short comings. Honestly, that ONE comment has fucked you up? This is a very fragile character trait of yours and will only add to the lack off success.

i have a friend with one leg that has sex with strippers all the time. He is quite a positive charismatic dude. (true story)

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Lol

Either your trolling or like Peb said.. your problem goes beyond what a written forum is going to be able to help you with.

MY point in short was: All the change won't make a difference.. Women are more so responding to how you feel about yourself (your frame) than they are what you physically look like. Now it just so happens that the majority of guys who's physical features don't fit that of model ads feel down on themselves. And so they project that and allow their frame to be dominated by an attractive woman. You're frame, your vibe, and your emotional control gets you laid more than your looks do. I've worked with some of the best looking men i've seen by societal standards and they couldn't get laid either. Unless it was sheer luck or they were jumped by a drunk chick.[/quote]

no im not trolling

i just want to better myself physically, i tried but it didnt work. you said it my birth defects are hindering me. you cant imagine how fucked up my life has been since elementary school.

Like we have mentioned several times but you're not getting it. clearly your head is fucked.

If you was to compare your mindset to a physical defect then I would say you are the elephant man.

Solve the problem instead painting over the cracks.

Will you go to see a therapist at very least??

Your mindset is repulsive and makes me wanna evacuate the thread. You will probably think it's because you think I think you're ugly.

YOUR.MINDSET.IS.THE.BIGGER.PROBLEM

I look okay but I dont get girls giving me attention by stepping in the room, You could switch bodies with me but you couldn't get laid because your mindset is messed up

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friday i wanted a smoke so i asked for a lighter to a girl who was dancing beside me with a group of others in a disco, i approached her and asked her if she had a lighter politely, she looked at me laughed and ignored me. next my wingmen asked the same thing she smiled and gave him the lighter

he is way older than me (46)and they are younger, in their early 30's, i dont know... i must be a freak or he is a male model and i didnt even knew it.

this is the guy

https://fbcdn-sphotos-g-a.akamaihd.net/ ... f9e2b18c53

You're mental. She could be repulsed by that fact that you expected her to reject you

Next excuse, keep them coming

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And what are we supposed to do with that, man? Feel bad for you? Great - we do.

We all told you what we think is wrong with you. You're fighting our opinions, despite wanting them and asking for them. Excuse after excuse... Reason after reason why we're wrong... You're defeatist.

Fix your brain and your mindset and psychology concurrently with making whatever cosmetic changes you want to make...

Anyone that would hang out with you with your current mental condition is problem not someone you want to be friends with... unless you have no interest in bettering yourself MENTALLY.

I'm done though. I feel like your mindset is rubbing off on me now.

Peace & Love bro.

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Lock this thread before he does something bad

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ok im convinced its all in my head

or:

"bro life is literally over for you. even in your 20s your eye area was shit tier. you never had a chance boyo

my advice: run reincarnation game"

or:

"Life is literally over for you man. Zero hope, zero redemption. Just move to san diego and enjoy the gorgeous weather and scenery, Learn how to surf, enjoy the awesome fish tacos, make some male friends(tons of military guys there), and literally forget about women. They are an alien species living on another planet, orbiting a different sun in a galaxy billions of light years away from the milky way. You will NEVER come close to interacting with one. Just forget about their existence. period."

no need to lock the thread. thought i could get some help to make myself more attractive instead i get labeled as a psycho.

Glad we could help.

As this is going absolutely nowhere and OP will not actually take advice (why even create the thread, man? really?) this is locked.