Hello everyone,

I'm new to the forum but probably not quite as familiar as the rest of you in PUA terms. So forgive me if I posted in the wrong section, or ask any silly questions.

So i've been reading some PUA material and one of the things it mentioned is compliance. The man is supposed get the woman to comply and not the other way around because it kills attraction. It also said not to allow women to end the conversation (you compiling to her) and that the man should end it before hand.

This is where I have a problem. Sometimes i'm having too much fun and sometimes i set a timelimit but lose track. If i know I have not much more to say I would end the conversation at its peak. Generally though, I'm terrible at it. Are there any "fail-safe" mechanisms that allow us to know or determine when to appropriately cut the conversation short before they do?

Last time this happened was during a SPAM call, the girl wanted to end it, i asked a single question dragging it on further, and when she answered I was a little annoyed but took it to the extreme in a playful way and said "shut up Amani and go away." She exploded in laughter, but I didn't even let her finish laughing and hung up. It was a moment where I tried to pretend to be the one in control of the conversation.

Opinions on ways of ending the conversation before they do? Thoughts/criticism on the SPAM call?

I could careless less about shit like that.

Sometimes I end it, because I actually have shit going on, and sometimes they do. I don't make a habit of trying to be the one that ends the conversations first. I think its childish, although I understand the thinking behind it. It implies that you have more to your life than to spend too much time communicating with a girl over SPAM. But the real trick is to actually have other shit going on. And if you don't - the its probably not the best time to get too caught up with women.

Sometimes I'll talk to girls on SPAM or FaceTime for 3 hours.. Just because I have the time too. I don't always, but when I do, I can relax and enjoy a length conversation. I'm not going to let some "false perception" that I'm not busy ruing my chances of getting laid. My ability to communicate with women effectively runs a lot deeper than anything they could "perceive".

Its what i would call an "ice berg" tactic. Its only 20% of the issue. The 80% lies beneath the reason anyone would need to apply it.

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Hey Eddie,

This is not about making it appear that i have no time to chat even though i completely understand what you are saying regarding having shit to do and being busy.

It is about Leading, as I understand, in a relationship you are the one supposed to be leading and her following/complying. I just want to make this a habit. Ending a convo first is leading, not an attempt to cover up the fact that i'm not currently busy.

I am not trying to game the girl I'm skyping with, because she is across the ocean. We both moved out of our hometown into different countries.

I can sit here and answer your question, give you a mechanical tip and let you become a fucking robot but i wont hurt your mental like that.

Bro... this is your reality, end the conversation WHENEVER the FUCK you want lol.

Stop wondering what your doing right or wrong and go with your gut.

Are you watching your behavior?

"OMG MUST HANGUP FIRST MUST BE IN CONTROL"

dude shut upppppppppppp just do watever you want lol

come back here when you have a real question of how to get laid or sumthing lol


*peace*

if guys focused on being awsome as much as they focused on little bullshit like this then this community would thrive

here's my best advice to give you when talking to a girl "HAVE FUN/BE COOL WITH HER and dont be an idiot"

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I agree with the two previous posts, don't over think things. You're GOING to make mistakes, same as i still do and will do in the future. Go with your natural decision(A girl will know when your forcing things and think you're weird) then learn where you made your mistake and move on/retry with the improved skills.