so i have read this book called inner game power by dan silverman. i want to develop first my inner game before i engage picking up. i have acomplished some of the task the book has said like saying hi or greet everyone i encounter and also trying to ground my confidence to my qualities and good traits,

but there are this questions running in my head which the book cannot answer..
do you approach people or do stuff that you know they would reject you or hate you 100% chance of hate and reject is it necessary to do these? to surpass norms and be different

because my idea of the the innergame is that i can do anything i can go against social norms i can do things that will not have the slightest discomfort i can feel, nor be conscious what they think and became bullet proof on whatever life shits on you its like being a socio path .because i dont want to be weak ever again

and why is it i find take rejection not personal and easy from strangers than people i acquianted before i started these stuff

I think this post needs to be edited and/or rewritten for better understanding. The clearer your post the more clear the advice that can be given. You get what you give.

I have no knowledge of this book, but I'd like to think that its just pushing you to step out of your comfort zone every way imaginable. The further you step out of your comfort zone, the easier it will be to remain unmoved in normal social interactions. Its like, " If you sleep with the girl, kissing her becomes easy, because sleeping with a girl is further along on the scale than kissing her" - So if you can " walk around the streets in your underwear and approach ten women" - Approaching ten women in your best outfit becomes twice as easy.

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True..I skipped right over that.

The best way to develop your inner game is to get your ass out there. Theres no plato of inner game you're going to reach without approaching thats going to unlock " anti-anxiety approaching" super powers. Performers that have been performing their whole life still get nervous before shows.

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