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Let's agree to disagree your post is huge and so gamey. I am speaking from my experience and perception
Well I would just say ask yourself, "Have I laid the girl yet?" If the answer is 'no' then you still need to game her. I was simply saying that you just start in
qualification since you already have attraction. Remember the only gamey things you are doing are the
compliance tests and the false takeaway which serves as a
compliance test. If you use
kino tests on the girl thinking that you 'don't have to game her' then you risk telegraphing
too much interest. It all depends on what state she's in. Hormones play a role. Women who are ovulating will be very receptive to
heavy escalation if they like you while women who are in logical male mode will be turned off at your inability to realize that she isn't in a
sexually receptive state. Escalation still needs to be calibrated otherwise you will look thirsty which is a major game killer. "Have you laid her yet?" The answer is 'no' so you still need to game her. You don't need to run attraction stuff. I agree with PEBBLE in that it will cause harm as it is a form of overcompensation do to insecurities about not
having enough attraction. But
qualification is another ball game. Some girls won't need gaming. But 10s will. If you aren't having to game then you are PUNCHING BELOW YOUR WEIGHT. You don't have to game because the girl already sees you as
higher value. Physical attraction doesn't necessarily set a
higher value frame. It creates something called lust. It helps with
building comfort according to
Adam Lyons. Gaming is more than building attraction. What about connection? What about flawless escalation in which you escalate without looking need while increasing her
buying temperature.
Look at the bold bro. Your gamey stuff is gonna do more harm than good
Your logic is. If you haven't slept with her you need game? How do normal people get laid then? They all have game Huh?
I'm willing to bet when normal people get laid that they have something going for them besides game which proves my point. I think you yourself a few years down the line and a 100 lays later you might considers that you could be over gaming and seduction is more like a dance as opposed to like a battle ground.
Having 'game' is subjective anyway. To me,, for example, learning what NOT to do, I.e. Do not text the girl every 5 secs and talking to her like a friend and not making a move - you're gonna friendzone yourself.
That's about as gamey as you need to be and yet so many normal people never solve this part. Your stuff is like "you must increase her buying temp once You get 3 IOI's as you do a takeaway and over the shoulder, thenknee kino then qualify after 3 bla bla, jeez"
The op's story is something that has been experienced myself many times. So It's not like I'm speculating here and I'm trying To make things simple and no pressure to the OP.