| This girl whose about a 7, came up to me at the job I work at with an innocent ('opener') about where something is and a flirtatious comment about me being cute. I was getting turned on and didn't want everyone seeing the wood in my pants so I playfully shooed her away telling her to get out of here. Jokingly-but serious because I was trying to protect my boner from being spotted. I KNEW she would come back, and an hour later she did......teasing me by imitating me to which I kept doing my job, ignoring her but aknowledging and smiling (submissive behavior by me:(..............THEN I tell her in her ear she's cute 2, but this is a bad place to do this. As soon as I gave her that "validation" she went to the guy next to me (emplyee that works with me) and kept saying stuff to him and looking over at me (SHIT TEST?)...I made eye contact with her feeling nervous, sweating bullets and signaled for her to shoo. She laughed. Came back, and I told her simply "just go away"............THE END.
I take it I could have gotten her number EASY....ALL I had to do was tell her to go away and only return with her number on apiece of paper and slip it 2 me. Since I'm just now coming out of my programmed behaviors, I was scared to say the second part in fear of rejection(dumb fear, cause I would have not gotten rejected. She could've not made her interest more clear....Im so DUMB)....The SECOND reason I had done this was I didn't want my ego bruised..when she did the jealousy tactic red flags went off in my head this girl is a game player and IDK if I'd be able to keep up with her (ALTHOUGH NOW I KNOW I COULD), which brings me to my next question........
IS A GIRL that uses jealousy tactics one I could assume is a game player that doesn't deserve sympathy..? As in, feel free 2 get her number and play her because she falls into that category of game player???? ALSO, WHAT would have been the correct response when she used the jealousy tactic on me? I didn't want to interrupt because it'd seem controlling BEING as I met her only an hour prior to her doing this....Last, but not least, why do I feel uncomfortable when girls tease me and how should I respond to THERE NEGS
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