why do I always see only the negative? how come I never remember the positive?
For example, let's say I approach 10 girls. 9 give me their number, 1 doesn't.
I don't see the 9 that were nice. I will focus on the 1 that was a bitch.

I am not sure if this is the same issue or another issue but I also interpret everything against me. For example, if a girl looks at me and looks away, I will believe that's because she doesn't like me. I know a guy who is the opposite. He interprets everything in his own favor: the girl looked away because she was attracted to him.

how can I start seeing the positive only and start ignoring the negative?

Heyy!!! Instead of directly flirting or going crazy with her, try to make friendship. then you will ultimately see the positive impacts.

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I interpret everything as my favorite which is why i don't see that one girl as a negative. I see it as one aspect of myself that I need to improve. I'm personally trying to be "Perfect" and i'm just not quite there yet, but I work toward it everyday.

Sounds like you just need a perspective switch.. They aren't negatives, they are just reminders that you want to become better than you are. Because if you were someone that was just content with the 9 numbers and 1 rejection, what would be left to propel you into trying harder? Wanting more? You want more.. I think thats a good drive to have. You only need change the way you see your drive.

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