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This is a tricky one, but I'll give you both perspectives..

On one hand, it would be cool to get some feminine affection coming your way. It'll lessen the stress, but it almost become a bit unmotivating for the direction you are trying to take your life. And this just goes to show what happens when you forget about women and start making improvements to better your life.. They eventually come back.. one way or another. 1 Week into your challenge and a old chick comes back asking to meet.. Coincidence? I think not.

I'd personally advise you to reject the offer and continue to plow forward with your life. Releasing your seed is not something you should be participating in right now unless you've earned it. The release of semen has a negative affect on a males aura and innate attractiveness to the surrounding women. Any man who's held his seed for 60 days and maintained contact with women will tell you that the women were all over him.
Noted. Will not meet up with her.

However, this brings up a question I've been meaning to ask.

I understand the logic that holding our seed makes us more sexually 'radiant', which is advantages in attracting women. But since the whole point of being a successful PUA is to bed as many women as possible, on a regular basis, aren't those two actions conflicting each other?
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1 Week into your challenge and a old chick comes back asking to meet.. Coincidence? I think not.
I can't see how anything I do could have any influence on her actions since I haven't been in touch with her for almost a year and she's in a different town. Plus I've taken care to keep her away from my friends by always going to another place instead of my town or hers when we met up in the past.
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And the point of the "hi" is to get the creep looks.. And to watch those creep looks transform into pleasant looks as you build up your resistance to the thought of being rejected. I do respect you persistence. May it continue..
Ok, I understand now. Will do it the right way from now on.

Here's today's report:

1) Went to visit a friend in the hospital and while walking to the front entrance I saw a pretty thing sitting on a bench looking at some files(presumably a young doctor doing her housemanship). As I walked pass I extended my hand and said hi, and she surprised me with the sweetest smile! Maybe she though I'm a former patient of hers, but damn that felt good.

2 & 3) Said hi to couple of nurses on my way in. One covered her mouth and giggled, the other one look confused.

4) On the way to my car from the hospital(hospital do not have indoor car park), random girl on the street. She pretend not to see me.

5) Stopped over at a commercial area with shops and walked around a bit to find my last target. Finally saw a girl in office attire walking towards me. Said hi as she passed and she smiled(probably thinks I'm a clinet of her office).

It's not getting any easier to force the 'hi' out of my mouth but I'm getting more thick skinned, as in the response don't bother me as much as before, so I guess that's a good sign.
Its universal order.. You ever have a person text you just as you were thinking about them? Ever notice that when you get a new girlfriend the old girlfriend suddenly text messages you? Its a metaphysical thing. Thought travels at 24 billion miles per second.. As we think and make changes new opportunities open up. When one job finally says they want to hire you, a bunch of other jobs appear out of no where looking to hire you. So the change is drawing in more attractive energy into your life that can be felt. I read a report on women having intuition 10x stronger than the intuition of men. We can't even imagine what thats like.. They just "know" subconsciously .. It happens to me all the time.

As far as the PUAs... I don't know how many you have met, but the ones who are overly wasting there seed often look gloomy and meek in the face. I practice injaculation as often as possible when I do have sex; and i'll often go months without sex and having sex without ejaculation for the energetic build up.

And finally, your perspective and how you respond to your perspective will ultimately determine how women respond to you and how you respond to women.

Don't assume they said hi because they thought you were a client.. Does that help your overall self esteem? Viewing it this way? Does that add to your happiness, inspiration, or motivation? NO.. Assume she said hi because she thought you were fucking hot and would like to get to know you better. That perspective will allow you to project more confidence from your "hi's" in the future; and more confidence is ultimately what will win you more women.

I think every woman on this planet is attracted to me. I believe this to my core; and because of it I feel comfortable and confident about approaching. Because they're going to like me.. why not. Am I always right? Of course not, but this is a motivating and pleasant way to think and so its the way I choose to live my life. Seduction more about fantasy than reality. Get into the fantasy. Thoughts become words, words become actions, actions become habits, habits become character, and character becomes destiny. It all starts in your own head.

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PostPosted: Fri Mar 27, 2015 4:54 pm 
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I practice injaculation as often as possible when I do have sex; and i'll often go months without sex and having sex without ejaculation for the energetic build up.
I've heard of using injeculation to prolong an erection so as to be a better partner, but I've also read it can lead to some health issues, especially if the semen were to seep into the bladder.

I tried it once and it was not a very pleasant sensation.

Another thing is, wouldn't your partner wonder why you didn't ejaculate? Granted not all bother to check, but the FBuddy I mentioned earlier does, as she orgasms rather easily and wants to make sure I do too.
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And finally, your perspective and how you respond to your perspective will ultimately determine how women respond to you and how you respond to women.

Don't assume they said hi because they thought you were a client.. Does that help your overall self esteem? Viewing it this way? Does that add to your happiness, inspiration, or motivation? NO.. Assume she said hi because she thought you were fucking hot and would like to get to know you better. That perspective will allow you to project more confidence from your "hi's" in the future; and more confidence is ultimately what will win you more women.

I think every woman on this planet is attracted to me. I believe this to my core; and because of it I feel comfortable and confident about approaching. Because they're going to like me.. why not. Am I always right? Of course not, but this is a motivating and pleasant way to think and so its the way I choose to live my life. Seduction more about fantasy than reality. Get into the fantasy. Thoughts become words, words become actions, actions become habits, habits become character, and character becomes destiny. It all starts in your own head.
Noted. Will think positive.


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I practice injaculation as often as possible when I do have sex; and i'll often go months without sex and having sex without ejaculation for the energetic build up.
I've heard of using injeculation to prolong an erection so as to be a better partner, but I've also read it can lead to some health issues, especially if the semen were to seep into the bladder.

I tried it once and it was not a very pleasant sensation.

Another thing is, wouldn't your partner wonder why you didn't ejaculate? Granted not all bother to check, but the FBuddy I mentioned earlier does, as she orgasms rather easily and wants to make sure I do too.
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And finally, your perspective and how you respond to your perspective will ultimately determine how women respond to you and how you respond to women.

Don't assume they said hi because they thought you were a client.. Does that help your overall self esteem? Viewing it this way? Does that add to your happiness, inspiration, or motivation? NO.. Assume she said hi because she thought you were fucking hot and would like to get to know you better. That perspective will allow you to project more confidence from your "hi's" in the future; and more confidence is ultimately what will win you more women.

I think every woman on this planet is attracted to me. I believe this to my core; and because of it I feel comfortable and confident about approaching. Because they're going to like me.. why not. Am I always right? Of course not, but this is a motivating and pleasant way to think and so its the way I choose to live my life. Seduction more about fantasy than reality. Get into the fantasy. Thoughts become words, words become actions, actions become habits, habits become character, and character becomes destiny. It all starts in your own head.
Noted. Will think positive.
I legitimately orgasm overtime that i've injacualted. And I have no problems letting the women I'm being intimate know about my non ejacualtions. They get curious and we talk about it.. They just wanna know why and once I break it down thats all she wrote.

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Today's 5:

1, 2 & 3) Drop by a client's place for a courtesy call so I can say hi to girls there. 2 on the way in(both smiled) and 1 on the way out(looks confused).

4) Said hi to a girl at the next table at a cafe when she lifted her head after putting down her phone. She gave me creep look and then picked up her phone again.

5) Said hi to the a girl right on the street shortly after existing the cafe. She smiled.

6) Ok, this is a weird one and a bonus. A girl I don't know said hi to me as I was walking to my car. I know a LOT of people(it's a very small town and I'm very active in several circles) so it could just be someone I met at some event and forgot about. Since I have no idea who she is I didn't want to start a conversation and let her find out I don't know who she is, so I just kept walking after saying hi back.


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6) Ok, this is a weird one and a bonus. A girl I don't know said hi to me as I was walking to my car. I know a LOT of people(it's a very small town and I'm very active in several circles) so it could just be someone I met at some event and forgot about. Since I have no idea who she is I didn't want to start a conversation and let her find out I don't know who she is, so I just kept walking after saying hi back.

You reap what you sow bro.. Universal order. It's just coming back; its the way it works. Salute.

I think its cool for you to take the next step now. To push through the next threshhold and introduce yourself.

" Hi, I'm hank, whats your name "

you can eject after that if you have nothing.. But see where it goes.

Post experiences...

You ready? Yes you are.

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PostPosted: Sun Mar 29, 2015 1:38 am 
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I think its cool for you to take the next step now. To push through the next threshhold and introduce yourself.

" Hi, I'm hank, whats your name "

you can eject after that if you have nothing.. But see where it goes.

Post experiences...
Great, now she knows my name when she calls security/police...hahaha

Can I use an opener? Like ask for directions etc. before giving my name and asking for hers?

And what happens if she responds positively? I have not a clue what to do next.
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No...but I'll push forward nonetheless.


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Man what a horrible day. My nerves have never been more stressed than today.

I'm not even gonna list them out one by one because the response was almost the same across the board.

3 thought I'm trying to sell them something and just told me she's not interested.

2 must have thought I'm a con artist and bolted to the side and walked off really fast.

I was seriously expecting to be chased after by security/police personnel when I was leaving the mall.

What now brown cow?


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I think its cool for you to take the next step now. To push through the next threshhold and introduce yourself.

" Hi, I'm hank, whats your name "

you can eject after that if you have nothing.. But see where it goes.

Post experiences...
Great, now she knows my name when she calls security/police...hahaha

Can I use an opener? Like ask for directions etc. before giving my name and asking for hers?

And what happens if she responds positively? I have not a clue what to do next.
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You ready? Yes you are.
No...but I'll push forward nonetheless.
"great she knows my name when she calls security/police - I understand the joke and that you are joking, but the fact that your mind is even processing this possibility as an option even a "joking" option, need be corrected. What about " Great.. now she'll know what name to call while I'm banging her in my back seat " - thats a more attractive mindset. The mindset is something you always need to work on. You need to catch yourself when you slip even if you're joking. Don't even joke about being unattractive.. Not at this level. When you're at higher levels do as you please.

And sure, go indirect.. Ask for directions " Hi, can you tell me how to get to xyz" She "blah blah blah" you " I'm hank.. whats your name? " Her " Blah" you - " Nice to meet you blah" and then you're free to walk away.

Keep going.. never levels present new challenges - get through them.

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"great she knows my name when she calls security/police - I understand the joke and that you are joking, but the fact that your mind is even processing this possibility as an option even a "joking" option, need be corrected. What about " Great.. now she'll know what name to call while I'm banging her in my back seat " - thats a more attractive mindset. The mindset is something you always need to work on. You need to catch yourself when you slip even if you're joking. Don't even joke about being unattractive.. Not at this level. When you're at higher levels do as you please.
Ok. I'm just trying to calm my nerves. I was joking, yes, but at the back of my head I seriously fear this can happen one day should I approach a girl who's had a bad day and has had enough.
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And sure, go indirect.. Ask for directions " Hi, can you tell me how to get to xyz" She "blah blah blah" you " I'm hank.. whats your name? " Her " Blah" you - " Nice to meet you blah" and then you're free to walk away.
I didn't go indirect because I didn't hear back from you earlier. So I just did as you mentioned

I think I posted my day's experience right as you were posting the above reply so you didn't see it yet. Its right before your last post.


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With the indirect approach, things moved much smoother. I talked to 8 girls in total all around the area where I work by pretending I'm unfamiliar with the area. This was done over several hours in different parts of the area. 2 just said no, brushed me off and kept walking.

1) Asked her where's the telco office. Before she can say anything I introduced myself and asked for her name. She told me her name without hesitation, I shook her hand, and she continued to give me directions to the telco office.

2) Asked her if there's a mini market in the area. She wasn't sure and while she was trying to remember, I introduced myself and asked for her name. She told me her name and I said it's ok if she don't know, thanked her and moved on.

3) Asked her If there's a particular bank in the area(which I know there isn't). She know there's not one in the area too and replied no immediately but gave me names of the 2 other banks which are in the area. I thanked her, introduced myself and asked for her name. She gave me her name, I shook her hand, thanked her and moved on.

4) Asked her if there's a hardware shop in the area. She doesn't know. I then asked if she knows if there's a place I could get some plumbing parts, She doesn't know either. I thanked her, introduced myself and asked for her name. She was a bit hesitant but eventually gave me her name, I shook her hand, thanked her again and moved on.

5) Asked her if there's a petrol station nearby. While she was giving me directions I interrupted her to introduced myself and asked for her name. She told me her name continued to give me directions. When she finished I thanked her and moved on.

6) Asked her if there's a particular petrol station(Shell) nearby(I know there's none, the nearest one is rather far away). While she tried to recall I introduced myself and asked for her name. She was friendly and happy to give me her name. I let her try to recall for a bit longer and then said it's ok if she don't know, shook her hand, thanked her again and moved on.


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With the indirect approach, things moved much smoother. I talked to 8 girls in total all around the area where I work by pretending I'm unfamiliar with the area. This was done over several hours in different parts of the area. 2 just said no, brushed me off and kept walking.

1) Asked her where's the telco office. Before she can say anything I introduced myself and asked for her name. She told me her name without hesitation, I shook her hand, and she continued to give me directions to the telco office.

2) Asked her if there's a mini market in the area. She wasn't sure and while she was trying to remember, I introduced myself and asked for her name. She told me her name and I said it's ok if she don't know, thanked her and moved on.

3) Asked her If there's a particular bank in the area(which I know there isn't). She know there's not one in the area too and replied no immediately but gave me names of the 2 other banks which are in the area. I thanked her, introduced myself and asked for her name. She gave me her name, I shook her hand, thanked her and moved on.

4) Asked her if there's a hardware shop in the area. She doesn't know. I then asked if she knows if there's a place I could get some plumbing parts, She doesn't know either. I thanked her, introduced myself and asked for her name. She was a bit hesitant but eventually gave me her name, I shook her hand, thanked her again and moved on.

5) Asked her if there's a petrol station nearby. While she was giving me directions I interrupted her to introduced myself and asked for her name. She told me her name continued to give me directions. When she finished I thanked her and moved on.

6) Asked her if there's a particular petrol station(Shell) nearby(I know there's none, the nearest one is rather far away). While she tried to recall I introduced myself and asked for her name. She was friendly and happy to give me her name. I let her try to recall for a bit longer and then said it's ok if she don't know, shook her hand, thanked her again and moved on.

Nice job hank.

Did any part of you feel like asking for the phone number before ejecting?

I wrote and article called " The Power In a Proper Compliment" - see if you can through that in to your indirect approaches. After the introducing of the name, pay attention to the person in front of you and look to throw in a proper compliment. Eventually you won't have to, but its a good way to get into the beginning stages of flirting with women you approach.

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Did any part of you feel like asking for the phone number before ejecting?
No, because hey might ask why I wanted their phone number and I wouldn't know how to respond.
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I wrote and article called " The Power In a Proper Compliment" - see if you can through that in to your indirect approaches. After the introducing of the name, pay attention to the person in front of you and look to throw in a proper compliment. Eventually you won't have to, but its a good way to get into the beginning stages of flirting with women you approach.
I've read that article. I think I can do that.

Any tips on some of the things I can compliment them on? I know I'm supposed to say something like how the smell of their perfume makes me feel but I have no idea how to convey that properly.


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Congratulations to both of you, great work. This is seriously growing to be one of the best posts on this forum, all beginners should read it. Keep it up!

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You have to give something up to get something new. Old habits, old ways, old people. Wanting whats lost will keep out the new. Now if you want what you said, then you can disregard my advice and continue as if i never posted.
Tell me what I need to do.

Step one: Delete and Block both of those girls from your Facebook account if you have them.

Step Two: Delete their phone numbers from your phone and all the text threads.

Step Three: Delete all photos if they exist.

Step Four: Look yourself in the mirror and swear before God to never talk to them again unless they walk up to you in person.

Come back and tell me when thats done.


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Did any part of you feel like asking for the phone number before ejecting?
No, because hey might ask why I wanted their phone number and I wouldn't know how to respond.
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I wrote and article called " The Power In a Proper Compliment" - see if you can through that in to your indirect approaches. After the introducing of the name, pay attention to the person in front of you and look to throw in a proper compliment. Eventually you won't have to, but its a good way to get into the beginning stages of flirting with women you approach.
I've read that article. I think I can do that.

Any tips on some of the things I can compliment them on? I know I'm supposed to say something like how the smell of their perfume makes me feel but I have no idea how to convey that properly.
Its just like saying " hey " hank, its not about knowing how to respond just yet.. Its about getting comfortable with the action. Many of these initial approaches will just be sacrifices for the growth that comes in the future. Its like sparring with a friend to prepare you for your actual battle.

But if you must say something say " I find you to be attractive, do you drink coffee? " - She says yes.. you say " Alright so whats your number.. we'll get coffee" and then you hand her your phone.. Just hand it to her.

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