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So what do you think the problem is? Can't write full reply
Since you asked for my honest opinion, I'm not gonna sugar coat it. My main problem is my own standards, they're too high and in particular too specific for my level of experience. I think if I was more experienced, I could relax the standards a bit, which sounds totally back to front I know, but I just think that it's important to get this one thing and then I can just chill out a bit. I will date curvy girls, hispanic girls, all kinds of girls but right now, I just feel I've got to have sex with the right kind which is completely backwards but I'm refusing to make any compromises.
For example a girl with curly brown hair left me a note in starbucks the other day with her number, but I didn't text back because
(a) she was overweight.
(b) I want to be the one to approach, texting surreptitiously is the coward's way out.