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ok matched this girl from tinder late last year stayed in contact but never met as we both got into relationships. we hung out once in feb but she was working as a promo girl. then finally went to hers last fri and closed... long story.

Stayed at that chicks place, was fun. Next day she apologised for acting weird. She was non responsive to my txts most of saturday. Yesterday she told me that she said it felt weird cause she didnt have a romantic connection with me. Said that she was with her ex huband for 6 years. And her last bf treated her like the only woman in the world and felt like i was just an option for her. she told me she wants a fwb.
She said its cause i made an inappropriate joke and said something about my ex in bed that put her off. I apologized and she still wants to see me. But is still very low responsive in txt

She joked awhile back about me writing a song. So i said i would to make up for joking around and she seemed happy. The thing is she wants a romantic connection but doesnt want a bf so ive been unromantic on purpose... very weird. She still wants to keep seeing me but is still txting low interest. Should i wait a few days without txting ?

i can copy and paste my conversation with her if needed, i msg her if shes unhappy ill find a new friend but she said we get along and she had fun but is still being very low investment in txts when she wasnt before.
i told her i dont want a relationship and she said im not bf material and she doesnt like me like that anyway, yet she always tries to qualify herself, gets shitty if i talk about other girls. Im not sure if shes lost interest or playing hard to get. my Mates think shes just playing hard to get, shes really cool in person and chatty but by txt very distant, plus in bed she was wanting me to cuddle and hold her all night yet aparently theses no connection. very confused guys, i gave her a good morning txt today but shes still low investment so i said have a nice day and she txtd u2 so reckon i should stop txting till she initates or do you reckon shes over me

She's been straight with you. She wants a FWB. I take it you want more than that?

Her unresponsiveness is probably due to the fact she ONLY WANTS A FWB and not a boyfriend - which she clearly told you...

I don't know why you'd think constant texting and constant contact is what she's after when everything she's actually DOING (never initiating and being unresponsive) tells you the opposite... Despite the fact she may have said she wants to see you... What do her actions tell you?

she said she wants a friend to talk too etc and also to have sex with but yeah ill tone down the texting and freeze her out for a few days and see if she is more responsive, had a proper talk yesterday. apparently i said something that hurt her feelings and wasnt happy with me. She said she wants me to tell her if i sleep with someone else, and said shes not planning on seeing anyone else cause shes too busy. I cant see her that often cause she has kids and thier dad cant see them that often, i might try play hot and cold back at her. i told her that im not going to be in a relationship with her and she she she doesnt want me too cause shes holding out for some crush overseas, which im fine with, so how often would i txt her if i can only see her every 3 or so weeks?

i told her id tone down the texting and she said its alright and that she txts shorthand when shes busy (has 3 jobs) but it could end up bf zoning me, i have other leads but shes is the hottest