Hi all,
I've typically always given up once I've rejected but this time I figured fuck it. If what I'm doing hasn't been working might as well try something else. So I went for it a little bit to see if anything happened.
Story is I met this girl on Patty's Day at a bar in Hollywood. I was drinking a beer when her friend grabbed me and pulled me into their group introducing me to her. We danced, flirted a little but I could tell there was definitely a lack of interest from her. I joked around, kept it light and just had fun. We exchanged numbers and so I sent her the following text chain.
I was going for a goofy, endearing vibe but I think I went overboard. Sent a vid of me hamming it up to Bon Jovi Livin On A Prayer at the end and realized I'd lost it so I started sending a few texts just for my own amusement. Thoughts? Be gentle with me now.

Here's the next 3 SS's.

Aaaaaaaaaand the next 3.

FINAL ROUND! FIGHT!

No expert here, but I think you answered your own question in the first line...lack of interest from her.

You might have gotten one 'eh kind of bored what the hell' date from her if you had packaged the whole date into the first necklace text but she was midly amused only and all her responses were tepid. I feel at most you would have gotten an eventual flake.

Tepid is the death sentence and it's like baking a cake badly IMO at that point you may not be able to start over. I get this same way with texting as I know how it feels to give up especially if you have a lot of interest in the girl. Consider it time saved and next her. At this point you're just devaluing yourself with additional texts which she will ignore or worse be annoyed by, possibly showing her friends in your social circle etc.

Find one you're really into and get her eating out of your hand right away is of course the better approach.

The first "go out" joke was cool clever and was all you needed. Continuing to hammer an obvious "joke" (which is all it should of been) came across as 100% desperate. Its a "threat", so its cool the first time, but after the second third time, a girl can't help but wonder if you're actually serious. And if you're making a threat for a date, you'll obviously make a threat for some sex because sex is a lot more than a date. (Thats called chick logic).. Women worry about there safety a lot more than we do; they're trained to do so from birth. So if you're driving a joke which is a potential attack on her safety or the safety of any of her possessions she'll head for the hills.

I personally think she finally responded to you because she was afraid of you potentially hunting her down and stalking her if she didn't. Girls go through that shit. So she figured she better let you off easy then have you googling her name and showing up at her house.

Copy and posting online dating openers though man? Come on lol.. If you're going to try again, at least use your own creativity. If a girl ignores you, you have one more text and/or one more call. Just ONE. So make it count. After that you'll have to wait at least 4-5 days before trying again. But the thing is, no girl is really worth all that effort, so after the second try you're best off leaving it be.

And what do you mean " go easy on me" lol.. Had you went easy on her this would of worked out. If you dish it out, you gotta be able to take it. You don't need someone to go easy, you need to hear it straight, and if it hurts. Great. It will only make you stronger and ensure that this doesn't happen again.

_________________
Need Coaching? For 1 on 1 Coaching via SPAM, Phone or Instant Messenger - Email: EddieFews@Gmail.com

Show Support, Buy The Book: 'The Secret Laws Of Social Wisdom - Click Here

http://www.EddieFews.com

This seems to be my problem is just lack of interest from the get go. Not sure how to correct it.
Good advice on the threat joke. Should have only used it once. Oh well, live and learn.

Are there some women you just can't win over no matter what? And it's better to just next them?

I believe any woman can be won over, but some women will bit a bit more difficult to win over than others because of the lack of connection and/or errors one has made prior to the winning them over.

The concept of nexting, for me has always come from the root understanding that the majority of women aren't worth the time and the effort that it would take to eventually win them over when confronted with a situation like this. So next because your time is a lot more valuable than to use it winning over some girl who probably isn't any better than the woman who lives next door to her.

_________________
Need Coaching? For 1 on 1 Coaching via SPAM, Phone or Instant Messenger - Email: EddieFews@Gmail.com

Show Support, Buy The Book: 'The Secret Laws Of Social Wisdom - Click Here

http://www.EddieFews.com

I believe any woman can be won over, but some women will be a bit more difficult to win over than others because of the lack of connection and/or errors one has made prior to the winning them over.

The concept of nexting, for me has always come from the root understanding that the majority of women aren't worth the time and the effort that it would take to eventually win them over when confronted with a situation like this. So next because your time is a lot more valuable than to use it winning over some girl who probably isn't any better than the woman who lives next door to her.

You can walk a thousand miles or you can take a air plane a thousand mile. Both get you to the same place, but one waste a lot more time and takes a lot more effort - when you can be investing that time and effort into things to better develop this world and/or your personal life.

_________________
Need Coaching? For 1 on 1 Coaching via SPAM, Phone or Instant Messenger - Email: EddieFews@Gmail.com

Show Support, Buy The Book: 'The Secret Laws Of Social Wisdom - Click Here

http://www.EddieFews.com

Wow, really good advice. Thanks man!