hello guys, I wont say I am new to pickup but then I wouldn't say I have mastered my skills either. I have F CLOSED a few girls on first dates and i don't normally bother if a girl i meet online doesn't delete her online profile after chatting and meeting. however 2 months ago i met this girl on pof, went on a date and F closed on first date. a month down the line, i realise i like this girl and want to be with her and i asked her through jovial conversation if she still uses pof and she said she doesn't because she hasn't been on there since she started talking to me. i have got two problems here :
1. is it normal for a girl not to delete her online pof profile if she meets and guy and they see eachother quite often ( i see her maybe twice a week and she spends most weekends at mine ).

2. how do i get her to delete her account without me coming across as needy/insecure/pushy ?

any advice will be highly welcomed.

thanks for your help in advance.

1. There is no normal. It also doesn't matter. What she told you is a strong IOI. She's hinting at exclusivity - which is what you want.

2. You don't. Seriously.

Leave it alone.

Even if she says she'd deleted the account for all you know she has private/hidden accounts. You can't worry about these things, its pointless. Focus on the relationship and ignore the online bs, Facebook included.

thanks guys, i always delete my account whenever i meet someone so i guess i expect the same.. maybe i need to leave my account active and not give a fuck

Just because something may be right for you, doesn't mean the same rule applies to everyone else. Hence one of the problems with the old adage "do unto others as you'd do to yourself".

Why do you care if she deletes her account or not? Chill out bro. Seriously. She can get picked up on the street just as easily as she can get picked up on POF. Do you not want her to go outside either?

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