Hey guys... Fresh report.

Around two hours ago, I met a amazing Korean girl. Fucking hot. She was dressing casual. We are in a hostel.

I saw her for the first time yesterday. She was if her friend. I didn't approach her yesterday. Today I saw them walking pass by me again. One hour later that girl took a sit beside me on the big table that people use to use their laptops.

I started talking with her. We talking for one hour. I did The Cube and The Love Test with her.
She told that the accuracy of the Cube was good, but not sure about the Love Test. When we are talking time to time she was going in my space, getting really close. I didn't trying kissing her when she was doing this. But I could trying so close was she. Sometimes I was holding eye contact with her. I was holding her hand, touching her shoulder. Getting close into personal space. She was very comfortable indeed.

After one hour her friend appeared and told her to go. She had to left. Shits happens. I got back to my laptop.

A time later she got back and took the sit in the same place, near of me. I was doing something in my laptop. I finish what I had to do, and them I started talking to her again. We talking for more. And I invite to play snooker with me. She agreed. We played. Surprisingly she plays well. So I didn't have much excuse to "help her". When we finished to play snooker, she was showing me something in her mobile, and I gave her a side hug. I just put my arm around her and she was ok with that. I left this way until she moved.

We took a sit on the coach near of the snooker. She was showing to me others things on her mobile. I put my arm around her and started stroking her arm. After a time I tried kiss her for the first time. She refused. As I expected. I keeping talking after this. She stayed there. We talking more. After a time I tried again. She refused. I was wondering, maybe because has people around, and I know that Asian people usually don't show affection on public. I give a kiss on her chick and she was ok with that. I started stroke her neck and she told me that she was feeling tickles.

I tried kiss her 3 or 4 times on the coach. Once she told me that she had to go. I told her to stay more. And she agreed with that. So after a time, I tried again. She refused.

I asked if she had Kakaotalk. She add me at Kakaotalk. I sent a text to her saying: XXX I need your help. Has a beautiful Korean girl hitting on me right now. What I should do?

She told me that she didn't do it. I teasing her more. And then moved to other thing.

After I time she told me that she had to left and got up. I walked with her for a few meters until find a place without people around. I stop to talk to her. She asked me for my Facebook. Before she leaves I asked for a hug. She gave me. And I stayed holding her in my arms. I tried kiss her again. She told me not. That she doesn't know how is in Brazil, but in Korean this is very special. Only between Boyfriend and Girlfriend. I asked her if she want be my girlfriend. She told me no. After this I left.

I think that I did everything that I could. My last option was only "force" the kiss. Do the move fast to take her unprepared.


Could I did something different?

Hi St. Rod,

I used to live for 4 years in Japan... I had to seriously "adjust" my game to the culture... Dont get me wrong: the game works there too... Human nature is the same everywhere... But different cultures need different approaches sometimes...

Yes, Asian are very cute. The fact that they are supposedly kind and submissive adds to the fantasy (although I personally find it boring in the long run)... The flip side is that Japanese, Korean and Taiwanese cultures are VERY conservative... Quite different from Western and latine culture... 90% Japanese/Korean/Taiwanese girls won't kiss or have sex just after meeting for the first time... It just takes more time, as simple as that! That is it and there is not much you can do about it. These 90% girls want to get married (usually quite young and the social pressure in this regard is HUGE) and going as fast as you did just doesnt make sense to them!! In the other hand, I would not be surprised if that girl got back in touch with you... If you feel like going through a long seduction process, if you think she is worth it, then go for it... But you will have to be patient... Perhaps she will introduce you to her parents . Joke aside, they are "slow cooking rice" pick-ups! So i confirm she did not lie when she said that a simple kiss was a very important and serious matter in Korea... In Japan, they call the game "nampa" (look it up!) and consider it as a bad thing... Things are changing but very slowly...

But then you have the remaining 10%... The ones that more liberal. Usually they like travelling and foreign cultures. They like going out the way we do and go wild in night-clubs. They may live abroad too and they know the way the game work in our countries. They accept it and play the same way as womens in our countries... These girls are also more attracted to foreigners. Somehow, they are culturally not asian anymore...

So if you want an Japanese, Korean or Taiwanese girl, 2options. Either you find one that belong to the 10% OR you go live in Asia and get ready to spend more time for slow-cooking-rice pickups (and weddings ).

Cheers

I would say you did all you could. You can not them all. asian girls can make it especially hard. They always seem to tell you that they like you when they go back to their country.

You should polarize and not change anything regardless of race, I would say do this to every girl you meet and you will attract the girls who do dig it and repel the girls that don't dig it.

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In fact, this happened with me once. I went out with one korean girl and we had a good time together but nothing happened. When she got back to her country she sent me a text and told me that she miss me every time
Thanks. Very wise. I'll do that.


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