Cool - good luck to you, Hank.

I chuckled. You sound like a chump.

I'd be willing to bet that me and charles are a lot more of your 'friends' than those chicks are. We're actually trying to help you get what you want in life. What are they trying to help you do?

Maybe this isn't for you. It ain't for everyone. There has to be betas for there to be alphas. So good luck hank. Thanks for posting on the forum.

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Is everything so black & white for you 'alphas'?

Use or be used? Conquer or be conquered? If I can't fuck her then she's of no use to me?

Yeah maybe this is not for me.

I used to think the same as you. Trust them. You'd be surprised how quickly things turn around when you're less available.

I have exes stalking me constantly like they're the FBI, telling mutual friends that they think they "blew it" with me when in reality they did nothing wrong and i was the one acting like a lost pathetic puppy to the point that they just got so tired of me.

I was like you in a sense that once someone gave me attention, i latched on and never let go. But you have to remember, people are often like soap. The harder you squeeze, the faster it slips. Just let go

Do what they say and I promise things start getting clearer

I would advise you listen to Charles and Eddie, their advice in invaluable.

Being less available is a good thing, you'll be surprised what it can do.

You just need to change your mindset - get them out of your head. They are not helping you.

Plenty of girls out there, it's not worth being hung up on girls that are not interested in you - it is detrimental.

Once you get that into that frame of mind then the girls who you are hung up on now may start to be interested and see you as higher value male... at which point of course you won't be interested because you would have realised that there are much better girls out there than these two.

Ok, let's do this.

And I pray to God you guys really know what you're doing.

This is like having someone walk into your office, tell you, "I will give you a job that pays 10 times more with all the benefits you can dream of, if you go into your boss's office now and punch him in the face and say you quit". without any proof that there really is a job waiting for you if you do as told.

I will report back when the dust settles.

Where are you located?

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It's more like telling you to quit your current job that promises every month that things will get better yet they haven't paid you in 6 months and moved your office to a dimly lit basement but beg you to stay because there's a slim possibility you might be a millionaire if you hold on

South-East Asia.

Ok I've done everything you listed EXCEPT delete the phone number of the friend, since I know she'll call or text me to ask what's going on, and I want to know it's her so I don't end up picking up the call and be caught off-guard.

So where do we go from here?

Since when do we get to make exceptions? She calls you and you say " I just needed to make some changes in my life. I'm going in a new direction" - you don't have to explain yourself.

Get rid of the number and we'll continue with step 2.

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Done.

Tomorrow what are you're plans?

For the next week you're going to go outside and say "hi" to five women a day. You don't have to talk to them any further than that necessarily. Just say "HI", if you end up in conversation cool, but it isn't necessary.

You can give brief overviews of your experience each day in this post.

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My days are pretty free as I work in the evenings. I was about to start the newbie mission this weekend anyway so this works out just fine. I might even start today(It's now already late morning on Saturday where I am).

Just smile and say hi, right?

Do I need to dress a bit smarter than usual? It's the tropics here so I'm usually out in t-shirt, shorts and sandals/flip flops.

I say always look your best, but your dress doesn't matter. This is about getting comfortable with outwardly expressing yourself to others.

Make this post a little journal.

And yeah, start today. If you want to go above 5 do it, but 5 is the minimum.

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You're doing the right thing man. I can't even begin to tell you the progress I've had over the passed 3 months just by thinking this way