I've been frequenting this forum for a month, and just getting a little bit of positive and "negative" feedback has been tremendous. It's also been helpful for me to write a field report journal and read back through it weeks after.

But I still have so many questions, and I'd appreciate any help that can be offered.

The biggest question I have now is...with a willing attitude to reinvent myself and a determination to achieve things I've always wanted, what's the best way to go about it? What's the best way to play the game for me?

About me...I've never had a problem with approach anxiety, and throughout the years I've had dozens of one-night stands but a terrible track record with relationships. When my game works on beautiful or half-beautiful women, it's a random, short-term thing.

When I need to be, I can be very confident, assertive, aggressive, and dominant towards the opposite sex. Hell...I love being that way. But often my life demands a certain amount of what I call 'stop, slowdown, and shutup' because sometimes I can be too assertive and even abrasive. So I tend to dial it back quite a bit and that always feels uncomfortable for me. I also don't feel comfortable chasing women even though I'm "forced" to do so quite a bit, and I don't like the whole "cocky/funny" thing because to be honest, I'm not that funny. When you try to be funny and you're not, it comes off as forced. I like my humor to come out as natural and dependent on the situation.

I want to be more interesting, because it seems as though women lose interest in me quickly. I also love to read/write (I do it for a living) and I'm not into sports. I love to travel, though.

I'd appreciate any insight...what's the best way for a guy like me to play the game?

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Go through Vin Dicarlo's Converation cure, and escalation ladder.

You'll develop a really natural style based on your own personality and insights and be able to take things sexual with relative ease.

You should read the attraction code before you do those 2 things but it's not necessary as you don't have AA, and you're not a virgin like many of the guys who come here.

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here is the difference between natural game and scripted routines and Mystery Method style of game...

natural game the coach teaches things that will work in any scenario, they teach psychology and a structure

un-natural game they teach very specific scenarios... and when you want to learn more you have to pay more money for that knowledge.

natural is better. it works for everyone as well.

un natural game is too specific

did that answer your question ?

either way if a girl loses interest in you that means you need to break rapport or just stop qualifying yourself so much

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