| After 4 years in the game and a whole year living on my own out to seek answers in the field of pick up.
Chasing for the KEY to true mastery. Using every single method out there, field testing each method thoroughly. Here's what i've concluded:
The game is something very simple.
Getting girls can be the easiest thing in the world.
The problem is: Years of bad conditioning to our "sponge" like brains have driven us down a path that makes this all seem so fucking hard.
After 4 years of rewiring, 1 year of super hardcore rewiring and laying over 25+ chicks in a single year. From the age of 21 to 22, Thats roughly 2-3 girls a month. And im talking HB7-10s here average 7.5-8s
Im not attracted to anything less than 7s. And mostly pull 7.5s with ease. NOT DRUNK chicks on average.
Coming from - 0-1 lay on avarage a year from the age of 17-19, this is a HUGE accomplishment.
So what fundimentally changed inside me that allowed me to have such major success?
First of all - LOCATION - i moved closer to the best spots in town.
2nd - ACTION, went out almost every night and interacted with women
3rd TRIAL AND ERROR - You fuck up, you internalize lessons, you come back stronger next time
4th GOOD MENTORS - I would watch the best videos on youtube about getting girls, PREDOMINANT MENTOR during that time : RSDNATION, the only pick up community actually putting out shit worth listening to during that time.
Yes, there are other good mentors out there and pick up mentors shouldnt be your only SOURCE. But im talking about plain pick up right now and what i did during that time.
Anyways after ONE YEAR of EPIC RAMPAGE. I finally realized this whole pick up shit is simple, i learned what girls wanted, after 50+ lays i could reflect on it.
And here's what girls want : A FUCKING MAN.
Simple.
Get your shit together. Have a LIFE. BE HEALTHY. WORKOUT. HAVE FRIENDS. BE PASSIONATE. ENJOY LIFE. BE POSITIVE. BE AMUSING.
I know right? MIND BLOWING AINT IT ?? LOL
So for those of you breaking your heads out there trying to figure this shit out and looking for a magic PILL, im sorry my friends there isnt one.
Theres UPS theres DOWNS
Use your own HEAD, is not what people tell you it is, the ANSWERS are all in front of you, you just cant see them.
So my advice to you :
Chill the FUCK OUT.
Approach GIRLS.
Stop BEING A BITCH.
CLOSE.
How to reach this level of simplicity?
GROW - NEVER stop GROWING
Mentally, emotionally, physically
If theres something you dont like and ISNT USEFUL FOR YOUR LIFE, CHANGE IT.
CHANGE THINGS UNTIL EVERYTHING CLICKS.
And remember YOU WILL NEVER BE PERFECT, LIFE IS CONSTANTLY CHANGING UNTIL YOU DIE.
Just enjoy the ryde, get this shit handled by taking action, KEEP YOUR LIFE BALANCED.
Get it done
*Peace*
Sidenote for all you who dont think this applies to you and are in a deep shithole of negativity :
You're wrong
We're all cut from the same cloth
I was born minority, poor, physical defects had to get surgery to fix, diagnosed with asthma, acne as a teen, never got laid, couldn't look at girls in the face.
Until i had a glimpse of LIGHT from the self help community, realized there was people like ME who could change and succeed in life.
Now i am where i am now
Not perfect, never, but ready for whatever life brings ! _________________  Watch me infield-Daygame- https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YgRD7iY ... 7niIVvQTeA
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