Jack makes sense. He gave you a great skill that would lend itself well to what you are already doing.
In my opinion you should use his advice. Also you have to work on your aggressive conversation skills.
I made a post on how to extend a conversation forever and tell stories out of anything.
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Hey my man no worries. Here is a simple trick to keep a conversation going forever.
Called conversational threading. If someone says a sentence there are a few subjects in it or at least 1. This is just basic English you know subjects and predicates all that stuff you learned in elementary school.
You take one of those and just say make a statement off of it giving the other person at least 3 positive ways they can take it. Then what ever they say back will have more subjects in it and you can jump off one of those.
After you run a thread it's course or can't come up with something you can always double back and pick any of the subjects you left alone.
Example: After you run a thread it's course you can always double back and pick any of the subjects you left alone.
I take the word thread out of that last sentence: "Yeah threads are a great way to communicate with people you don't know."
I take the word communicate: "Communication is key to life: I find that the only way you can make money in this world is through communication."
I take the word money: "The best ways to make money in this world is to set up a passive income and obtain financial freedom."
I take the word passive and Invoke the spirit of Majikal: "Passive income is for pussies! You need aggressive income!"
I take to word income: "There are ways to expand your income by using aggressiveness to work towards the passive income."
I double back and grab "people you don't know": "I find the best way to establish that aggressive mindset needed for PU, is to practice convincing people you don't know to hand over their money to you willingly."
I take this point and expand it into a story: "I used to work as a door to door salesman. Every day I would put on my cleanest suit then go to an office where they would focus on boosting your talkative state. I would be pumped, then I would go out and viciously assault the city in order to put food on my table."
You see how easy this is? I just had a conversation with myself and I could have kept it going indefinitely. You can talk forever. The beauty of this skill is that it can be used with any type of style you run. You can tailor your talking points to what ever you learned from your Guru, you will just never run out of things to say.
You'll realize that after you tell a story there will be a pause if the story was informative based. They will say good point or something and reflect on what you just said momentarily. The pause is fine, enjoy it because it's a natural part of the conversation. Then if you can't think of anything to say (a thread has come to it's end in your estimation) take a topic from a prior tread and start up a new one (or a subject that was said earlier in the thread that just ended.) As you start talking again there will be more thread opportunities created. A never ending amount to where you can't discuss every subject that was stated.