Thanks for replying. Funny thing is I'm actually known for being good at attracting girls already. And I do relatively well in cold approach comparing to social game. In social game, I just can't get the top tier girls that the alpha (not hs friends) get to pick. In warm approach, I still get pretty girls like HB7, but not the top HB8-9 that I drooling for. I know I need to internalize this and think that I'm enough. I just think it is a good approach to get validation from people, so they build me up to alpha status. I understand you can argue this is superficial stuff, but to a certain point they can affect my confidence sometimes. If I know that everyone will just response well, then it will be easy to just be the awesome self, get in the zone and dont self-doubt. Again, I am still practicing to become more center to these superficial shit don't affect my zone. currently trying to internalize RSD alex concept of being relax. Hopefully, once I reach the point of relaxation and "im enough", all this limitation people place on me will be gone. Thanks, any suggestions will be appreciated.