Hey bronco good for you about the text back Nice one.
Do you have a link to the post on accepting rejection? 'Cause I just got rejected man...
After 4 days I got a text back, saying something about how she had a really great time and then some more.
At first I thought great, but then I read that she had second thoughts about our second date, 'cause she didn't really see it going anywhere.
DAMMIT.
She also said, if I wanted to keep in touch, we could always email.
That confused me a little. Is that some kind of pity?
Anyway, I texted her back that it's ok, I still think she's a sweet girl. I did that with a little wink, 'cause I used that line on her about sweet/arrogant (I think you've read it)
At the end of the text I gave her my email, saying I'll hear from you.
Any suggestions?

By the way, I'm not American, so what is phillies bashing?

And tweeby thanks for your comment, I didn't say anything about the late reply. Already got rejected but hey, I'll use the tip for the next one!

Sorry to hear about the rejection dude. Like you said, there's definitely a lesson learned here. Next time, we're going to prevent the situation with one of those great moves during the sarge.

Here is the post I read, which completely gave me the balls to get up and go make the phone call. It's a fresh look on building up the confidence and putting yourself out there.
how-to-enjoy-rejection-vt17116.html

As for how to handle it from here, I am probably not the best person to ask as you can guess. I'm sure one of the other PUA's in here will give you some advice. The e-mail might be a pity thing, but if you just play it cool, things have a way of coming back around.

Best advice- go out and sarge! Get some more numbers. Good luck my friend.

PS The Phillies are a professional baseball team in Philadelphia, and an arch rival of the New York Mets (my team and apparently my target, which is awesome.)

_________________
-Bronco

"I'm like a dog chasing a car; if I ever caught it I don't think I'd know what to do with it" - Heath Ledger as The Joker

Lessons learned indeed! Haven't had an email yet, but I'm going out tomorrow night, gonna try some of the tricks mentioned here!
That topic on rejection is nice by the way.
How's it going with your target?

Great idea going out and sarging more. I've been pretty tied up lately and haven't had a chance. Keep us updated!

I've been talking through text with my target. It's getting a little old. The jist of it has been small talk but I'll try and recap it as best I can:

Since Weds, I said a couple things like, do you live with the family you work for (she's a nanny) and she shot back, No I live at home.

I say that's a smart move, and mention I was asking because I wanted to see if she was going to be free this weekend because I was going to call her and invite her to something (trying to get out of texting)

She shoots back she's busy. I shoot a couple jokes at her home town by going "btw I heard the Long Island Expressway was all backed up because some store out there was having a 2for1 sale on hair gel"

That got me some props.. so I said listen I gotta go I'm out w/clients, I'll call you tonight? She says, sounds good, have fun

I call around 8:30, get the machine, leave a message, and figure ok well that's all I'm going to do, her move

She texts me around 11am next morning, saying sorry,she was out to dinner, we have some light convo about weekend plans, and I end it with, give me a call some time, and she says I Will, and I say , we'll see.

She texts me at 3:00 am going "so how is your snowed in night being lazy?" b/c I told her I decided to skip going out since we were buried in snow and was having friends over. I shoot back this morning "it was fun drunk texter, you should've come"

So that's where we're at..I debated not writing back at all and think I shouldn't have because I am trying to set up the phone convo going..but I think the comfort isnt there yet, but for fucks sake how do u get the comfort and attraction if u cant even hear someone's voice?

That's where I'm at. Some convo is ebtter than none but it's a learning experience. Got a full weekend going on next week, maybe that'll provide some opportuninities to meet up.

Critique/keep me posted on ur situation

_________________
-Bronco

"I'm like a dog chasing a car; if I ever caught it I don't think I'd know what to do with it" - Heath Ledger as The Joker

Sorry 'bout the late reply, been a little busy.
Did some sarging this saturday, ended up with a #close on a HB8.
Did the exact same routine as I did on the HB10, and it worked pretty good, only I didn't get to K-close because the club closed!
I'll post that routine in another topic by the way.
Sounds like you're doing good with your girl, nice text about the drunk texter How's your situation now?

PS. The HB10 didn't email me...I think I've definitely lost this one!