Chick at work, IOI's or just wishful thinking?



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PostPosted: Wed Mar 11, 2015 1:08 am 
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HB8 at my workplace. Small Workplace. She is slightly older than me. She is mid level, I am low level employee. We work together rarely but I stop by her desk sparsely to say goodbye every day. Conversation slightly awkward, but smiles had, she asks how my commute is...asks how weekend was...but:

-At christmas party called me an asshole
-has said "you always pick on me"
-blushed when laughing in conversation with me
-has said "i think you're full of shit" after teasing me about how I like a certain food that I told her I don't
-puts her arm through her hair when talking with me
-knows that women want me and I am fun

on the other side of things

-has said "I'd encourage you" when talking to other women on vacation if she was there
-has a boyfriend but does not live with her
-hasn't outright emailed me much


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The information I need it for a long time.

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PostPosted: Wed Mar 11, 2015 12:50 pm 
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Sounds pretty platonic to me...

Would need more details to really assess it though.


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One time we were in the office alone together on a friday night. I sat doing my work. She said "are you going to be here for awhile? I have to go get changed in the bathroom" she did, then came back with makeup and hair done, I said "you missed a curl!" then I put my hand out and touched her shoulder and pointed to it on her. She left, no real real flirtation, but a bit here and there. She was going to some convention that night with friends. I had other plans

We are going on a company trip soon, but my girlfriend is coming lol. My girl is hot tho




The only other thing I could give you is she said "because we're not friends on facebook...." in a pouty voice she said

But the asshole comment?
The blushing?

I know not enough to go on, but I have to be professional in the office.


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PostPosted: Wed Mar 11, 2015 3:43 pm 
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It's really funny/interesting to watch how much wishful thinking plays into perceived attraction.

You're seeing what you want to see.

There's nothing here man. Nothing romantic.


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PostPosted: Wed Mar 11, 2015 4:55 pm 
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I agree doesn't sound like much but I wouldn't discourage you from trying.


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PostPosted: Wed Mar 11, 2015 8:26 pm 
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Its funny man,

I'm like you in this way, I always make everything excuse in the world to make myself believe a girl is attracted to me. Not only because I know the power of assuming attraction, and I know how giving off the energy makes women respond to be, but I genuinely believe that 8 out of 10 women want to fuck me.

My girlfriends have ALWAYS been the girls that surrounding guys would say " She's not flirting, she behaves that way with everyone. She's nice like that to all the guys. She's just being nice".. But I was always 100% that they were wrong and I used my certainty as a driving force to create attraction with someone who probably just was being nice.. AT FIRST.

So I think that if you stop second guessing yourself you can pull this off. Attraction is all about the frame you give off and your frame is usually a reflection of the mindset you have considering the person you're talking to. So if you assume a girl is into you, you'll produce that frame and thats the most attractive frame a man can have.

I say over interpret every sign a girl gives you. Seduction isn't about being realistic. I know some ugly ass dudes with hot ass women; nothing about that is realistic, but attraction isn't realistic. Its all about fantasy.

However, if she does in fact have a boyfriend I'm not so sure this is a good idea.

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