Haha anyways she sent me an email which i would love to have your views on. Im not sure what to do, respond? Keep with the NC thing? Respond after a few days, Im lost here.. I'll pm it in a sec

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Skills is right. Follow his advice...

From personal experience what he is saying is true...incredibly crushing breakups will
rocket launch you into phenomenal success far beyond what ever you imagined.
(The better the pickup the more he's been crushed)

Tyler has another great video on this in addition to the needy one.
Break Up Survival
ttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=06UnHtD1ZbY

Yeah right on, this breakup was fucking brutal, feels like im coming off drugs. Still, i went out and got laid today, from messaging to hookup took about 3 hours.. Felt really weird afterwards though . All my mind is focused on is getting back together, but Im not going to cave in, each day it gets a little better, and the advice helps keep me going. Im hopeful this 30 day relationship detox works

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^ 3 hours is quite impressive. Congrats Best summary explanation I've seen of why neediness is bad.

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Yeah agreed, thats 100% what it was and i know it. Fuck, i just dont know how it happened, it wasnt until last night when i was with that girl that i realized just how different i had become towards the end of my relationship. My game was flawless, the girl was in awe of me, and all i could think of was "fuck this is how 'x' was in the beginning". Fast forward a year and a half and i dont know how i plummeted that much..

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So after a few days of not responding and contacting she just emailed me angry that i hadnt gotten back to her last email.

In a nutshell, she said she couldnt believe that i didnt have the decency to respond to her message. That she had said sorry for everything, that it was possible to work it out in the future, and that she didnt dislike me but that now her feelings have changed on these things. She said she hadnt been around to pack my stuff but she would be doing that as soon as possible.

In the beginning it stirred me up and got me feeling a bit upset, but now its laughable. After the way she treated me, and practically threw me out she has the gall to talk about decency. I figure that no contact is the way to go? What does this mean, what does she want? This is almost like narcissistic behaviour, theres an expectation that i sooth her now because she 'tried' to sooth me? I dont know im confused, and it makes no sense. No contact?

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Well, I would say you could bend the No Contact rule just a tiny little bit... just to pick up your stuff. I mean, you don't want it sitting out on the curb, do you? And sending a friend to do it would be awfully childish. You can also use that opportunity to inform her that you have a 30 day NC rule, which now has to start all over thanks to her not having your stuff packed up in a timely manner.

As i told you privately i knew it was gonna happen... hehehe! now tell her that you miss her, you love her, and care about her, but you are trying to move on, and you met a cool girl that you want to get to know and see what happens, though you are not ready yet, the new girl is pretty cool..

Watch her try to go to your house or shedule a meet if you do that^

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Yeah man, it got me in the beginning, but a few hours later i felt so much better about everything. As if the dopamine floodgates in my brain just opened. So skills, you think this would be better than keeping the NC going then? Is it all the same?

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Yea keep the nc going... that will make her go crazy even more...

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dm i found this:

http://www.girlschase.com/content/how-g ... riend-back

Pretty good i am writing a break up dynamics guide will post on the weekend, meanwhile that article is gold..

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Dm i finished the post check it out in the lounge:

break-up-dynamics-vt188670.html

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Hey, just read both threads, good shit man. The girls chase one I couldn't really figure out which category my relationship was though i was leaning to #2. Anyways, you said go out and get other girls. No problem. Issue is, we dont really have mutual friends and the only way she potentially see my stuff is on fb. She has a fake account that im not sure she uses, and her sister also has an account (im not friends with either on fb).


So other than that, there are no other outlets for her to be able to see me with other girls. Should I change my privacy settings on fb so that anyone can see my profile?

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Wtf?

You're going to switch up your everyday shit just so some chick can see you flirting with other girls? This is why she left you bro. Stop switching up for a woman. Be who you are before and after them. damn.

And second,

Women operation on intuition; she may not "know" you're talking to other women, but when you stop thinking about her because you are talking to other women she will FEEL it.

Don't you notice that girls hit you up when you are least thinking about them?

But if your other motive for meeting new women is so that she can be jealous, its useless. You're still doing shit for her, just as you were when you guys were together; hence the reason she left(again).

Cut it out dude.

I just had to comment on that.

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Except for how making her jealous as a tactical strategy actually works.

Nothing wrong with changing FB privacy settings, either.

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