What to say to female colleagues at a new office job if you want to stop yourself asking a lot of boring, nagging interverview style questions and becoming the annoying interview guy?

How can you stimulate HBs and the guys in a club or at a house party, which is full of boring, slightly depresssed people, where the music sucks, drinks are expensive, and you are not a magician or a professional dancer?

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Because HBs will not instantly be stimulated by looking at my phisique. I am tall, my hair is too rigid, going to be gray soon, and grows straight up, I have four too long, skinny limbs, and I have grown a slight pouch.

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I'm not the guy to give you advise on everything else but one thing I can say is you can always improve your physique and your looks. You don't need to be jacked, I've seen guys that barely way 150lbs and girls compliment them on their physique. I personally have a great physique im 5'9", but 180lbs solid and it helps with your self esteem. Even if your not genetically gifted and cant get ripped woman can tell when your taking care of yourself and you just feel better about yourself. Also posture makes a hell of a difference too don't slouch keep your head up and dress nice. Your height gives you somewhat of an advantage and girls don't make to big a deal of grey hair if you at least make it look nice.

I would not recommend gaming your coworkers, there are plenty of other girls to game.

Judging by your second question, you are already framing the situation as depressing and negative. People go to clubs to socialize and have fun. Try to be positive or at the very least go into the situation with a neutral mindset and bring fun energy to the group. Match their energy or higher. Befriend the guys and find commonalities. Break rapport and qualify the girls and escalate her as you reward her for her investment.

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Well at this point I dont think he would be fclosing any of them anytime soon so its not like his shitting where he sleeps. Even if he wants to regardless of the consequence his asking a fair question.

Well you can never go wrong with light bantering you can start there. If she either says something goofy call her out on it in a joking manner and smile. You can also begin to compliment her on what she's wearing and neg her in the same sentence push-pull but be careful with doing this too early.

Yeah light banter. In the old days I knew some guys at school, well they did strong banter, and I thought they were total asholes but they usualy got the chicks evantualy. I thought the world was upside down.

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