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 Post subject: Game at School
PostPosted: Sun Mar 01, 2015 6:26 pm 
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I'm currently in H.S right now, and most of my day is spent in school and away from malls, parties, etc. (Although I will try to go there more often since I've started taking PUA seriously). Do any of you have any tips for a beginner's game in H.S? I've sort of experimented with it, but only with girls that I've known before and didn't go that far. I've definitely not approached girls outside of my grade, but am planning on doing so.

To describe myself, I'm a fairly confident person who mostly has trouble making a conversation go anywhere. I can talk to anyone about school and the weather, but can't "escalate" (Is that the right term?). :?:

Also, what is the ONE true product that much of the community uses for beginner game? The forum is cluttered with different ones, and many of them seem to be for advanced users (Especially the natural ones).


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 Post subject: Re: Game at School
PostPosted: Sun Mar 01, 2015 8:47 pm 
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At school? Can that even be called game?

Either way, here goes my opinion: High school is a great time to begin with PUA, because it can teach you a valuable lesson or two. In here, none of that smooth talking girls into bed or faking it will cut it. This is an almost entirely closed system, and, if a girl chooses to have sex with you, she knows odds are high everyone else will know. Thus, there is no way around it: In order to get laid, you will have to become a man of high value. Which is good, because right now you should be focusing on becoming the type of person you want to be for the rest of your life anyway. So...

-Adopt the right mindset: In your situation, you are not aiming for shortcuts or quick lays (although, of course, you will be making the best of every situation that presents itself). You are investing in your future. In leading the type of life you want to lead for times to come. If results don't follow as quickly as you would want them to, don't let this discourage you. High school is complicated, and you are building a foundation here.

- LIFT. Seriously man, if you are not going to gym yet, GET ENOUGH INFORMATION AND DO SO RIGHT NOW. Your hormones are at an optimal level to begin building the physique you will once have, don't waste that chance. In addition, you will not often be as non-busy as now. Believe me, it will help enormously with getting girls, both now and in the long run. Also, once you have reached an above average level of fitness, you should try to get good at a sport. Which brings me to my next point...

- Social value: Pretty much what I mentioned in the introduction. You need to have a good reputation/social value. You cannot fake this shit here, you are literally around those people all day long and they will see through any false pretenses you make. As such, do what I said. Build a good physique. Being good at a sport will immensely boost your reputation as well. Make sure your style/haircut are up to level. Try to follow trends, but don't do so at any cost (i.e. if they don't suit you at all). Also, and most importantly... Work on your personality. There is a load of information on this forum about the type of mindset/mentality you should have. Learn to deal with people. If there is a social event, be there. Use this and any other free moment to practise your interactions with people.

Also, what types of products are you talking about? Books? You have a reading list for beginners in the beginner sticky.

Good luck man, you have a great opportunity in front of you.

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 Post subject: Re: Game at School
PostPosted: Sun Mar 01, 2015 8:58 pm 
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There is probably not ONE true product, though the one that I think has the most support and least disagreement is probably 60YOC. He's pretty basic. And mostly brushes past conversation altogether.

Aside from products, I highly recommend Chase Amante's blog and Good Looking Loser's blog.

The truth is, what is best for you can vary. Where are you in the looks department? Like, face, height, muscle mass, fashion?
You sound like an introvert. But there are other things. What are you looking for in all of this? A lot of lays, a single girlfriend, several simultaneous FWBs? And what kind of girl do you like? Outgoing and bubbly, shy and nerdy, etc?

Tell me all of those things, and I can probably do a better job recommending something. I personally love Sinn, but I rarely suggest his stuff, because most guys would come off as either try-hard or assholes doing what he suggests. It just happens to suit my personality.

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 Post subject: Re: Game at School
PostPosted: Sun Mar 01, 2015 9:17 pm 
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There is probably not ONE true product, though the one that I think has the most support and least disagreement is probably 60YOC. He's pretty basic. And mostly brushes past conversation altogether.

Aside from products, I highly recommend Chase Amante's blog and Good Looking Loser's blog.

The truth is, what is best for you can vary. Where are you in the looks department? Like, face, height, muscle mass, fashion?
You sound like an introvert. But there are other things. What are you looking for in all of this? A lot of lays, a single girlfriend, several simultaneous FWBs? And what kind of girl do you like? Outgoing and bubbly, shy and nerdy, etc?

Tell me all of those things, and I can probably do a better job recommending something. I personally love Sinn, but I rarely suggest his stuff, because most guys would come off as either try-hard or assholes doing what he suggests. It just happens to suit my personality.
I'm "ok" in the looks department (5'9", face is okay but slightly babyish, nothing too out of line to make me look bad), but I really need to work on my muscle mass (For which I'll be getting a school gym membership soon). In terms of introversion, I'd consider myself an introvert but not so much that I can't hold conversations with anyone. I don't mind social situations in general, but prefer to be alone. I'm not too sure about whether I want a single gf or the other options, but am leaning towards just one. In regards to what type of girl I like, I'd prefer outgoing, but not so much so that it's a hassle.

Thanks a lot in advance for your help, and know that I'll definitely put your advice to good use. :D I've heard of Sinn before (His face is even on the top of the forum), but didn't know about his style until now.


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 Post subject: Re: Game at School
PostPosted: Sun Mar 01, 2015 9:24 pm 
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At school? Can that even be called game?

Either way, here goes my opinion: High school is a great time to begin with PUA, because it can teach you a valuable lesson or two. In here, none of that smooth talking girls into bed or faking it will cut it. This is an almost entirely closed system, and, if a girl chooses to have sex with you, she knows odds are high everyone else will know. Thus, there is no way around it: In order to get laid, you will have to become a man of high value. Which is good, because right now you should be focusing on becoming the type of person you want to be for the rest of your life anyway. So...

-Adopt the right mindset: In your situation, you are not aiming for shortcuts or quick lays (although, of course, you will be making the best of every situation that presents itself). You are investing in your future. In leading the type of life you want to lead for times to come. If results don't follow as quickly as you would want them to, don't let this discourage you. High school is complicated, and you are building a foundation here.

- LIFT. Seriously man, if you are not going to gym yet, GET ENOUGH INFORMATION AND DO SO RIGHT NOW. Your hormones are at an optimal level to begin building the physique you will once have, don't waste that chance. In addition, you will not often be as non-busy as now. Believe me, it will help enormously with getting girls, both now and in the long run. Also, once you have reached an above average level of fitness, you should try to get good at a sport. Which brings me to my next point...

- Social value: Pretty much what I mentioned in the introduction. You need to have a good reputation/social value. You cannot fake this shit here, you are literally around those people all day long and they will see through any false pretenses you make. As such, do what I said. Build a good physique. Being good at a sport will immensely boost your reputation as well. Make sure your style/haircut are up to level. Try to follow trends, but don't do so at any cost (i.e. if they don't suit you at all). Also, and most importantly... Work on your personality. There is a load of information on this forum about the type of mindset/mentality you should have. Learn to deal with people. If there is a social event, be there. Use this and any other free moment to practise your interactions with people.

Also, what types of products are you talking about? Books? You have a reading list for beginners in the beginner sticky.

Good luck man, you have a great opportunity in front of you.
Thanks a lot for your advice, especially the part where you mentioned that results won't come as fast as you expect. I haven't had much luck with women before, and I wouldn't want preliminary weak results to throw me off track. I'll definitely take your social and exercise advice to heart, and will check out the other sources on the forum that deal with this part of your life.


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 Post subject: Re: Game at School
PostPosted: Sun Mar 01, 2015 10:02 pm 
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Ok, based on what you've said, I would personally recommend Justin I.P.'s Introverted Seduction. It offers a really good framework and is an excellent overview. It's also pretty cheap at $10. It's on amazon.
Its chapter list
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The women and relationships you want Your sexual presence Part:II Framework What seduction is Excitement and comfort Comfort and communication The introvert's strengths and weaknesses in seduction Part:III What to do Nonverbal communication and developing a sexual aura Physical escalation Calibrating anticipation and engagement PartIV What to say Principles of conversation Verbal escalation Logistical escalation and logistical management PartVI Perspective Going sexual Abundance mentality The philosophy of seduction Simplicity in seduction
As you can see, it's very comprehensive and probably covers just about every important area. It's probably the most efficient broad overview I have ever seen. He really highlights almost everything that matters, and doesn't really spend time on junk that has little to no place in seduction.

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