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 Post subject: gf no sex
PostPosted: Sat Feb 28, 2015 4:03 pm 
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My gf, both 19 years old, 15 days togheter, wont have sex.
How should I approach this issue?
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PostPosted: Sat Feb 28, 2015 4:48 pm 
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My gf, both 19 years old, 15 days togheter, wont have sex.
How should I approach this issue?
Don't worry about sex right now, just focus on keeping attraction, continue to build comfort and rapport through continued dates. If it is there then it'll happen but she needs to feel more comfortable with you first. It may take days, weeks, months for some girls.

Some may just want to wait until marriage. Just decided now what's more important to you - sex or this girl. If its sex then leave her now and go find someone for sex. If its her then she and the relationship is worth the wait.

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PostPosted: Sat Feb 28, 2015 5:00 pm 
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Gf no sex is not a big deal. You've known each other for 15 days but how quality is your communication or time spent together like? According to Mystry, it takes an average of 7hours from meeting to sex if you do all the right things. Is she a virgin?

You'll have to spend time with her, show less interest in sex, make her feel comfortable with you and escalate slowly. You might consider learning escalating from Vindicarlo's escalating steps book. All the best.

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PostPosted: Sat Feb 28, 2015 5:19 pm 
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For me , or maybe for all men, idk, sex means trusting eachother and being intimate and connected,not only about her body..
And it makes me feel rejected and sad.

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PostPosted: Sat Feb 28, 2015 8:04 pm 
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She's not your girlfriend.

Knock off the lovey dovey, cute shit. Don't even consider calling a girl your girlfriend after you've slept with her ATLEAST a handful of times and you're not playing this "game."

The fact that someone said "focus on building attraction" when it's supposedly your fucking GIRLFRIEND is so ass backwards....

She is not your girlfriend. Don't treat her like one.
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PostPosted: Sun Mar 01, 2015 1:03 am 
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The fact that someone said "focus on building attraction" when it's supposedly your fucking GIRLFRIEND is so ass backwards....

She is not your girlfriend. Don't treat her like one.
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just focus on keeping attraction
not building. You still romance each other even though you are in a relationship, you don't quite, that's how you lose a girlfriend.

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