Back a year or so ago I met these two girls through a mutual friend. I occasionally sold to them but not very often. I quit talking to them for a while and then one day as I'm swiping through tinder I come across one of the girls and we match.

We talked on there for a little bit and I discovered she was in a relationship and was just looking for friends. I didn't really try after that but we swapped numbers and I started selling to them again. Now I've been selling to them steady for a few months and we have been hanging out a little bit.

I'm interested in the one that I matched with on tinder, and I have been trying to make my intentions clear that I like her. She has been nice and friendly, but she is more of a hermit and doesn't like to leave home except for work so I haven't been able to get her on a date.

I smoked with them on Friday and we had a good time. I felt like the one I'm interested in was giving me signs of attraction, she sat close on the couch, asked me questions about myself, and made a good bit of eye contact. Well I texted her last night to see if she wanted to smoke and she did so I headed over.

When I get to her place, both girls are there and another guy. The girl I'm not interested in and the guy both left to get pizza and alcohol so it was just me and the girl I do like. We smoked and talked, the only thing is that she talked a lot so I just kinda listened and let her know i was paying attention.

The girl and guy got back and so we all smoked together and had a good time, they offered me alcohol but I didn't want to drink. We talked as a group and it went okay but I'm not the kind of person that always has something to say, so I prefer listening and learning. I may have come across as quiet or shy so I'm not sure if that could hurt my game. Anyways i stayed for about to hours and headed home around 11:45pm.

Do you think I have a good chance with this girl, or would you say she just wants to be friends? I think she's single again and I would like to see if she's interested in dating, but I don't want to blow my chance by being too forward. Any tips for this situation?

If she's on tinder I can almost guarantee you that she is not just looking for friends. She may of just told you that to see where you head was at. Women don't expect us to analyzing every little thing they say; they kinda just want us to see the bigger picture. And the bigger picture is that she is swiping and matching with guys on a well known hook up website.

Step one for you would be just fall back for now and let her come. If you guys had a decent time she'll hit you up again.

Step two: If she hits you up to smoke.. Make her pay. She'll respect you for not allowing her to use ya just because you like her and she's pretty.

You have to game this one like anyone else man. Hold onto you standards and boundaries, and check her when she makes attempts to cross them (which she will). Hang out, get touchy, and seduce..

How do you usually do with girls? eighty precent of the dealers that i've been around don't actually have real friends and/or girls interested in them for them. Unless their a lot younger.

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Thanks for the great answer, definitely solid advice. I'm not an actual dealer, they are the only people I sell to. I'm 20 and in college, and the girls are around the same age. I'll be sure to leave her alone for a bit and see if she initiates a conversation, but how long do you think I should wait before I initiate on my own?

As long as it takes man. That shouldn't even be of her concern. She'll pop up. You guys are young, sounds like everyone had a decent time. Let her pop up.

Stay off the forums, focus on your life, and let her come around.

And you still didn't answer the question about how successful you usually are wit women.

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True that, that's what I needed to know. Im pretty good with girls when I'm in my element (at parties, with friends, playing guitar) but im not so good at getting girls that I actually like.

Because you don't reinforce your boundaries when they cross us. Someone we think the girls we like aren't testing us and because of it we kill the attraction. You'll get better at that with a little time. Just stop posting about her. She ain't worth posting about bro. None of these chicks are.

Once you realize that you'll be as good as gold.

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