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PostPosted: Mon Feb 02, 2015 7:54 pm 
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Ugly dude here listing my 50 girls experience as an ugly dude. FYI, I am confirmed ugly, there is zero speculation as it's been repeatedly told to me over the years.

Yup me too, was so bad in school I tried to kill myself and when I went back a girl walked right up to me and said “shame you didn’t do a proper job of it”

The following are results from obeying all rules of the game. Well dressed, good sense of style, and sense of status (I'm a photographer so people are very open to me approaching them).

No rules of game are be approachable, have fun, don’t give a shit, be in state etc etc etc

Every encounter falls into 4 failure scenarios.

Girls #1-13: I see a woman I find attractive at an event and approach her saying I'd like to photograph her in a fun pose. Very low pressure/fun, maintaining full eye contact. They all smile for the photo and immediately walk away as I'm trying to talk to them again. Most just look immediately at their phones after and never look at me again for the rest of the night. Slight/veiled look of disgust on their face but the lowest of all 4 scenarios.

Ok did u try teasing them, make them do stupid poses, pget them to pretend that they are in a photo shoot???? So what u are saying is u waled over said – hey would you like your pic took, took it then tried to talk to them as they were leaving , u gave them no reason to stay, u approached them as an employee

Girls #14-20: On the subway/public transport/open area and dressed my best. This is during the day time. I make eye contact with a woman only to have them immediately look away and never look back again. No acknowledgement, reciprocation, and a clearly visible look of disgust on their face. Decide to do a new approach and actually go by a woman instead, they look right at me and immediately shift their body away or move further up the platform.

Women do this to everyone all the time, how many morons do u see on the subway, people talking to themselves, stinking like piss and shit etc – another set up to fail scenario

Girls #20-30: Same as above only difference is doing it at night. Drunk women will talk to me for a few moments only to go off to other men. Look of disgust is not as obvious here but still very much there. It is instead replaced with a look of pity.

how did u interact with them, shit I get that too, u just move on when they are that rude…

Girls #40-50: This is a general rejection upon first sight. Even when approaching with a light anecdote or observation to start a conversation, they simply respond coldly and refuse to talk further. Any responses henceforth are equally dismissive or non-existent. EXTREME anger and resentment towards me for approaching them, almost fury. Look of disgust is strongest in these situations above all others.
Again, who are you approaching, how are you opening them, seriously, not every person is rude and shitty, even if they find you highly unattractive, a lot will still chat, they do to me

Had these just been isolated incidents, one could chalk to up to chance. But this is a consistent pattern that repeats 100% of the time.

Set up to fail dude oh and FYI im 35 and on roughly 50 lays SPAM, 3 serious gf’s and almost all of the other lays were in kind of gf’s – ie lasted more than a month but less than 6
TL,DR

Yes, it is possible to be TOO ugly to get women, that isn't a myth.

I'm living proof.


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PostPosted: Mon Feb 02, 2015 7:58 pm 
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PostPosted: Mon Feb 02, 2015 8:21 pm 
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Being ugly makes it harder. But i know ugly guys who were successful with women; however, they had other things going for them (like power). This is the problem with a cold approach. A cold approach will rarely work for an ugly guy, but that is not how ugly guys need to pick up girls. You need social proof, power, and other things going for you to attract. Of course no girl will be interested in a random creepy ugly guy approaching them out of nowhere with no context. This isn't surprising, but it's not the way an ugly guy should go about picking up girls.
I do not share the poster's issue of being ugly however, I am not a male with power be it social status or riches. I am not a model or actor either. There is no deficit of being ugly or unattractive however, I am not attractive to ever woman like every woman is not attractive to me. I think context can be framed. Having a reason to approach is ideal. Building off an initial approach is ideal. What I tend to do is build off autonomy; knowing I am naturally attractive (no ego), I am more then enough, everyone is awesome, and I am on a journey to see which women I would be awesome with together.


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PostPosted: Mon Feb 02, 2015 8:32 pm 
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Ugly dude here listing my 50 girls experience as an ugly dude. FYI, I am confirmed ugly, there is zero speculation as it's been repeatedly told to me over the years.

Yup me too, was so bad in school I tried to kill myself and when I went back a girl walked right up to me and said “shame you didn’t do a proper job of it”

The following are results from obeying all rules of the game. Well dressed, good sense of style, and sense of status (I'm a photographer so people are very open to me approaching them).

No rules of game are be approachable, have fun, don’t give a shit, be in state etc etc etc

Every encounter falls into 4 failure scenarios.

Girls #1-13: I see a woman I find attractive at an event and approach her saying I'd like to photograph her in a fun pose. Very low pressure/fun, maintaining full eye contact. They all smile for the photo and immediately walk away as I'm trying to talk to them again. Most just look immediately at their phones after and never look at me again for the rest of the night. Slight/veiled look of disgust on their face but the lowest of all 4 scenarios.

Ok did u try teasing them, make them do stupid poses, pget them to pretend that they are in a photo shoot???? So what u are saying is u waled over said – hey would you like your pic took, took it then tried to talk to them as they were leaving , u gave them no reason to stay, u approached them as an employee

Girls #14-20: On the subway/public transport/open area and dressed my best. This is during the day time. I make eye contact with a woman only to have them immediately look away and never look back again. No acknowledgement, reciprocation, and a clearly visible look of disgust on their face. Decide to do a new approach and actually go by a woman instead, they look right at me and immediately shift their body away or move further up the platform.

Women do this to everyone all the time, how many morons do u see on the subway, people talking to themselves, stinking like piss and shit etc – another set up to fail scenario

Girls #20-30: Same as above only difference is doing it at night. Drunk women will talk to me for a few moments only to go off to other men. Look of disgust is not as obvious here but still very much there. It is instead replaced with a look of pity.

how did u interact with them, shit I get that too, u just move on when they are that rude…

Girls #40-50: This is a general rejection upon first sight. Even when approaching with a light anecdote or observation to start a conversation, they simply respond coldly and refuse to talk further. Any responses henceforth are equally dismissive or non-existent. EXTREME anger and resentment towards me for approaching them, almost fury. Look of disgust is strongest in these situations above all others.
Again, who are you approaching, how are you opening them, seriously, not every person is rude and shitty, even if they find you highly unattractive, a lot will still chat, they do to me

Had these just been isolated incidents, one could chalk to up to chance. But this is a consistent pattern that repeats 100% of the time.

Set up to fail dude oh and FYI im 35 and on roughly 50 lays SPAM, 3 serious gf’s and almost all of the other lays were in kind of gf’s – ie lasted more than a month but less than 6
TL,DR

Yes, it is possible to be TOO ugly to get women, that isn't a myth.

I'm living proof.
50 lays is not bad for someone who deems themselves ugly or unattractive. I think Tyler is a good role model because he was not exactly genetically predisposed positively but rather, at a deficit giving he has a learning disability an he is rather odd. Despite all of the following, he overcomes his challenges, and continues to prosper. The company is worth over millions of dollars. The impact of the recent shit show last year definitely hurt resources but, it reached a larger mainstream audience who like you may becoming from an emotional deficit looking to change their life.

Something that is focused too much is the PUA batting average or even in mainstream circles, HIMYM ripped on the player of the show Barney who in real life is actually a flaming homosexual. The episode ripped on the player male as stereotypically having been hurt and therefore becoming a player. Always some simple linear perspective because mainstream can only handle low level consciousness. Anything above that would be out of the reach of the masses. Moving forward, the player was attacked and even emasculated saying his "batting average" is comparable to a one armed disabled pitcher.

Mainstream consciousness want ignorance. Spam cold approach seems ridiculous but, astronomical volume is what you want. Women before hitting the wall have options and always will. Unfortunately for them, having adopted the passive dating role, they rely on male suitors and courtship, also known as traditionalism. The fall back alternative once she has hit the wall and her looks fade her is hypergamy. Once this happens, she has to hope to lock down someone who will provide security. The active dating role is to be a go getter, to pursue, to forget the mainstream batting average, and cold approach at a astronomical level even if teetering on spam. You want to hook a high volume of women, have options, and choose the best mates for your life no matter how long or short term. I think a change in perspective is ideal in order to achieve your wildest dreams. Further more, something like yoga and meditation may happen to be in your best interest to clear your mind and turn down the negative mental chatter in your mind. You are not victim. Complete self acceptance to what is and surrender, let go and free yourself.


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PostPosted: Wed Feb 04, 2015 12:32 pm 
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oh i am not ugly, i just said i thought i was because i had been told it most of my life,


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PostPosted: Thu Feb 05, 2015 9:46 am 
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Post pics of yourself or stop whining, Hank. Be practical. Betcha there is many things that could be done to improve your looks, unless you have a serious facial deformity.

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PostPosted: Thu Feb 05, 2015 5:16 pm 
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bounce, DA FUCK did u not read anything i said, anything at all???? most people in chat know what i look like, and i am fine

but thanks for making sure, appreciated buddy


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PostPosted: Thu Feb 05, 2015 11:30 pm 
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oh i am not ugly, i just said i thought i was because i had been told it most of my life,
LOL Epicness :D
It is funny. I did not date often before PU. It was mostly periodically and I would get hung up on a girl and date her for awhile. After doing this, it increased but, something I notice that, if I seek invitations to approach, I never get them. I just let it happen. Look to approach regardless. If I look for it, it wont happen because neediness is given off.


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PostPosted: Fri Feb 06, 2015 3:28 am 
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bounce, DA FUCK did u not read anything i said, anything at all???? most people in chat know what i look like, and i am fine

but thanks for making sure, appreciated buddy
I must admit I only scanned your first post and this page (hey, it's a long thread). Lesson learned, won't do it again. Sorry, m8.

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PostPosted: Fri Feb 06, 2015 12:58 pm 
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thats ok mate, was a bit jolted when i read it,


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I know some ugly guys who get laid but they have bullet proof emotions. They don't ever get upset about anything, and are probably certified clinical sociopaths. So yes, Ugly men who are Sociopaths tend to do better than regular ugly men with weak emotions shields. BY THE WAY the guy who I'm talking about wears sweatpants and sneakers/beard and basically looks like a bum but has a permanent smile on his face and doesn't give a fuck about anything.

Clothes have nothing to do with it, it's your insides that count.


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I know some ugly guys who get laid but they have bullet proof emotions. They don't ever get upset about anything, and are probably certified clinical sociopaths. So yes, Ugly men who are Sociopaths tend to do better than regular ugly men with weak emotions shields. BY THE WAY the guy who I'm talking about wears sweatpants and sneakers/beard and basically looks like a bum but has a permanent smile on his face and doesn't give a fuck about anything.

Clothes have nothing to do with it, it's your insides that count.
Awesome post.

There seems to be something with sociopaths and psychos who seem to get laid. I would not doubt that Russell Brand is a sociopath. Robbie Williams is pretty crazy too with women. They seem to be able to charm everyone. Reading "A brief history of Time" by Stephen Hawking, he speaks about larger stars having more pull then smaller stars. We see this sort of phenomenon where some natural (ZYZZ/Yaboyvdave) have more pull then most guys who do PU or frequent the forums. My suspicion is that, not everyone who uses forums goes out but, more importantly, something on a metaphysical level is going on. To be a extreme introvert and transcend to a extrovert is unheard of as is the man who is chode or afc gone player. This is not something you see and if there was something rather more intensely real about PU, the monetary exchange would be much larger then it currently is. If $2000 would transform a chode into a player, everyone would do it but, the truth is that, it is not so simple. Some are more geared towards PU success then others. What is so impressive about JMLUV was that, he was a average or below average looking guy pulling hot women several deviations above his SMV (sexual market value). More impressive, the women were currently at their SMV peak. JB is a sociopath. He simply does not give a fuck what people think. Sure enough, he pulls a lot of hot girls despite having been banned from a dozen countries and practically kicked off planet earth.


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PostPosted: Wed Feb 25, 2015 9:32 am 
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I can fix 90% of "ugly" guys' looks, as long as the ugliness is aesthetic and not a medical condition like Downes or elephantitus.

OP private message me and I will see what I can do for you.


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PostPosted: Thu Feb 26, 2015 8:02 pm 
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I can fix 90% of "ugly" guys' looks, as long as the ugliness is aesthetic and not a medical condition like Downes or elephantitus.

OP private message me and I will see what I can do for you.
Curious, what you recommend? I saw someone on rsd forums posting damn good advice.


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