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In a direct approach, I believe some of her logic creeps in saying, "if he was that comfy telling me how cute i am, then he would obvi be as comfy doing that with infinite other girls."
Hence why I prefer situational 99 times out of 100. Gives the full fate impression.
And whether you go direct or indirect it is fate: after all the two of you happened to appear in the world together at that moment in time.
I would just as much prefer to have a approach invitation where a girl is hovering around or checking me out. Its the same difference, her buying temperature is up, she already wants it so, coercing her into doing what she already wants is a given outcome. She already made that conscious choice and willed it into happening.
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But I'm not going to go to the mat for situational indirect - that would be the ego running things and I'm not going to let that happen.
The ego comes in one way or another. There is no trying to avoid it as that is just a new ego. I have seen people read Ecky, get on about ego, and create a new ego of pointing out the ego of every man, women, and child. Its like the man stuffing his face full of donuts preaching about not eating sugar. It is ridiculous.