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What's up players, I'm a new member here and need some advice. It might be kind of long so bare with me please.
Okay so I have this girl in 2 of my classes which I have 3x a week. I noticed her always glancing my way so I recently started talking to her and got her number about 4 days ago. Before I met her she would always leave class in a rush to meet with her friends and BF but since we met she doesn't do that anymore. She always looks for me in class and takes her time leaving to make sure we leave at the same time. We always talk in class and sit next to each other. Now the main problem I have is that I'm confused if she likes me or not. She admitted to having a BF but then she throws in things like " oh we haven't been together that long " and " I answered him only because he was a good friend ". Little things like that. She won't even mention her BF if I won't ask. I even walked her to class and chatted with her till her teacher came.
Within those 4 days of knowing her I used some hugging for kino , I did eye to eye contact , push and pull and teased her a bit. On text she admits to staring at me at me in class, she knows I am into her as I made it pretty clear to her. She say's she into me and I say so let's get together and she''ll say " But I have a BF " or " It's coz I'm not single " then she'll say she looks forward to seeing me in our campus. Since I met her if I text her she ALWAYS replies fast ! She tells me she really likes talking to me because I make her laugh even over text. She tells me what's she doing during the day and even personal moments like going to family dinner what and where they ate. She's really passive with everything. I even sent her some funny sexual meme's. It's like she's giving me mixed signals !
I think I really like this girl. I have been trying to take her out on a date but she's been making reasons till today after class she said we can go walk around the park when she walks her dog this coming Thursday ! So what should I do if she follows through ? Please suggest things I should do to get her. What kinds on touching, go for a kiss ? Suggest please.
Once again I am new here so bare with my long story thank you !
Here's what you do: Escalate.
That's it.
Seriously - poke the bear and see if it growls (bad analogy)... Don't out and say "hey I like you"... Just escalate with her physically instead and see how she responds. The fact that the boyfriend keeps coming up is because you're giving her reasons to think about him (IE: Let's go out... and she thinks "I can't I have a boyfriend")... So - escalate instead... And don't verbalize it. She'll either go with it or she won't... in which case you'll have your answer either way and you can:
MAKE HER JEALOUS >> That's play #2. If she doesn't want you, show her others do...
I'd also add: Are you sure you want a girl who cheats on her boyfriend? If you want her for anything more than some fun in bed (and it sounds like you do - it's a little 'oneitis' sounding), then you know that you're eventually going to be that boyfriend she cheats on, right?
CHAT
