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But and if the guy is in the same social gathering that you and her. How handle with this kind of situation? How create a gab between her and him, and take advantage from that?
Oh this is tricky now. I'm just guessing at this point your friend is the life of the party. Might even have a good rep with women that is making this other girl attracted to him. You see what you want to do is be the life of the party, which basically means "it's no fun unless (whatever your name is) is here! We need to invite him over asap". But here comes the issue with that. Everyone in your social circle has already been put in a slot and labeled. For example:
Mike=everyone knows he's the introverted one
Sam=everyone knows he's the funny one
Chris=everyone knows he's the one going no where
Jason=everyone knows he's the successful one
Bob=everyone knows he's the life of the party
And as soon as someone wants to change their position, for example, Mike (introverted) trying to break out of his comfort zone to be like Bob (life of the party), the rest of the social circle is not going to be happy with that. And the social circle will try to put Mike back in that introverted position. Unless the group can just adapt and over see what Mike is trying to do.
It's like your nerd friend becoming the cool kid. You don't want that and it will take time if you're going to try and accept that. So yeah, going by assumptions, if you are not already not the life of the party, you want to go ahead try to become that, but understand, not many people, even yourself will probably accept that while you are in the process of doing this. This will have her like you in the long run. How to become the life of the party.. that's another page to write lol. But I think RSD has a video on how to, and I'm pretty sure there is info in the forum somewhere with a quick search.
In the short run
It's pretty hard to say what you can do now. You have to keep in mind two very important things. You do not want to be needy and you do not want to care. Girls can spot needyness 200 miles away. So if you are trying to create a gap, her needyness radar will go off. So if you think whatever her name is thinks you like her, and that you are trying to get her to suck your dick instead of the other guys, I'd back off. The "don't care" thing is self explanatory. Just don't let whatever happens effect you. Even if her and the other guy bang and you and her don't. Other than that, do some push pull with her, make her qualify herself, be the life of the party and you should be set. You could even hug the guy and say "thanks for (whatever)" while you look the girl in the eyes and mouth "He's such a fucking faggot". But whatever you do man, do not fully invest in her, because that would break your heart if they wound up together. So always be texting other chicks. Maybe download Tinder too. etc. Hope this helps.
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