Last night me and my buddy went out to meet her girl and some of her girlfriends... I didn't know any of them.

Well the thing is this... The uglier girls where closer to me and I was just making them laugh a lot and when the hot girl was trying to get my attention I nearly ignored her. Everything ok there. I was the high value male.

Then the music changed to a more latin tone, everyone stood up and started dancing a little bit. My instinct just told to grab her hand(Hot Girl) a spin her around... BOOM. She started ssaying how she'd love to dance with me but she just broke up from a 5 year relationship and blah blah blah. My answer was:"So for how long are you gonna be just broken?". I thought it was funny but maybe it was some sort of begging.

Anyways the attraction faded and she started dancing with a friend of hers... On my way out I approached to say goodbye, she missunderstood this as me trying to talk her up or something and stopped me saying I have girl here you can meet... I stared at her like wtf are you saying and said bye. THEN she gave a hot as hell look.

Do you guys think she really needs time? Or I wasn't man enough to keep her interested. To put on some perspective, there were about 6 afc in the same room just eating her up with their eyes.

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I would say this is some lame excuse to put you off chatting her up. An excuse which is masking what is really happening: a rejection.

Essentially the girl is using the classic "Let's just be friends" method of turning down guys.

Remember:
Any red light she gives you which stops you progressing, usually means you do not hold enough value to her.

Say something like:
"Really? 5 years. I don't think I could handle you for 5 years."
And then stack forward in the most masculine way possible.

When she starts giving you some decent signs to progress. (AKA - IOIs.)
Then you can progress it again.

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Then in this case the need of my attention wasn't that solid? I took that as the IOI but as soon as my friend told me she just broke up... I just went for it. I immediately regreted that decision tough, because it was pure instinct and influenced me very easily.

Next time would you say I should look for more solid IOI's? Could you some examples?

And of course I didn't keep my frame... lack of practice.

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She doesn't need time bro..

And she was responding to the vibe you started to put out when you approached her at the end of the night. Women are intuitive; and although you probably weren't going to talk her up at the moment you still wanted to. So she may if jumped the gun, but because you wanted her in your mind and she didn't want you the same she was justified in her reaction. You can't hide anything.

It just sounds like a classic story of getting a bit needy and vibe and easily sucked into her beauty. Happens all the time. She would of loved a rebound - someone to help her get over the situation faster, but at the moment you just weren't being a proper display of a guy who is fit to be that.

You win some you lose some. It happens. We learn. Just forget about her and get the next one.

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