OK, I'm just really confused about what to do.

Yesterday I went to a friends house-party (had a great time too) and managed to speak to pretty much everyone.

Anyway one of his housemates is a HB8 and I now have her number. Not through skill (or so I think) but by luck. I was walking around with energy speaking to everyone and think I had a good vibe. Anyway I took her phone at one point and started taking selfies for fun - she then complimented them and said I should have them. Then she asked for my number and sent them over.

After this point she seemed to be everywhere - really energetic (more of her friends were arriving/ making sure everything's OK in the house) and I wasn't able to isolate her, build tension or neg her anymore. I didn't really see/speak to her much after that point in the night.

But now, what do I do? She seemed fun and I think I have the number by luck. Not because she really "intended" to give it to me. Advice?

There are a couple of things you can do at this point.

One of them is to send a text to that number with "Who is this?"
and pretend you don't know who it is, and start a conversation like that.

But another way, probably a way that I would recommend is to call that number, and then say,

Hey who is this? I woke up this morning and saw this number in my phone...

And when she tells you who she is, then say, "O now I remember, you were the girl who forced me to
take her number...what's up? How long did you stay yesterday?"

Assume the friendship, don't be too weirded out by it. Talk with her as if you're talking with your friend.

Then if you guys hit it off by phone, say something like, "Hey you seem cool...how come
we're not friends yet? We should hang out sometimes...get some coffee or something...but you're buying "

In reality, be willing to walk away from her. If you get needy or attached to hooking up with her, you are bound to
mess it up.

Relax, and focus on doing the things you did yesterday, building your skill so these things don't happen by
accident anymore, but by design.

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obviously she knows who you are if you text her because if she sent you the picture it should show up in the text thread she created - so texting "who is this" wouldnt work unless she is one of the few people that deletes her messages the next day

text her right now something playful like "hey rockstar - how is your saturday ?" just like that. if by any chance she does ask "who is this?" then send her the picture of your selfie back to her because she obviously likes it if she complimented you

figure out your logistics from there, what she likes to do, (try and lead it to a fun bar) and go do it together according to your schedule, try and do it soon while she is still warm to you

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Hey,

Thanks for the advice.

Sent her a message or two but then she didn't reply to my last one (sent on Sunday).

Like I said before, I dont think I had attraction and it seemed a bit random. The convo was easy and funny but her replies were always short.

Advice to pull this one back?

Oof, been there done that. Get a new number, you don't want to come off as creepy. You need to build rapport and attraction before you text (or at least it's best to do so).

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Think its worth texing back to see if I can get it started again? Im gonna need something to really draw her and then start attraction again I guess. :/

Ideas?

Good job having fun and being energetic. She could have liked the energy. Could you send the text thread here ? You shouldn't double text so if you already did, you shouldn't text for at least a couple weeks. Then you can send her a ping text and start over by being light and playful and setting up time to hang out or just use her as social proof/preselection.

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I sent another message this morning just saying 'didn't realise you were the shy type :p' or something around those lines. Its on SPAM so I can see she read it and didn't reply. No matter. On to the next one!