Quote:
Met HB8 3 months ago, she was in a relationship. I kept flirting and eventually f closed her while she was still in a relationship. We both got emotionally involved while she was still seeing her BF.
I put my guards down and fell in love with her. She started staying at my place, hanging out couple of times a week. We were in a relationship, but she hadn't broke up with her BF yet.
I was on a vacation for 10 days, when I came back, we met again and we had sex.
2 days later on her birthday, we had planned to go out to a resort. When I was about to pick her, she called me in front of her BF and told me, "I want to be with my BF, don't try to call or meet me again."
A lot of shit happened after that. We never contacted each other after that.
I'm trying to get over her. I fucked a girl the very same day. I fucked another girl the next day, got into a rebound relationship with her. Kept fucking her for 2 weeks, but I just wasn't feeling the emotional connection and I kept thinking about HB8. I broke up with the rebound girl.
I'm meeting new girls, but back of my mind, all these good memories with HB8 keep haunting me. I know its over and I would never take her back.
Its been almost a month, how do I get over her? I've tried every method in the book. I've slept with a lot of girls and this has happened to me before. I know with time, I will get over her, but I just feel this immense pain whenever those memories pop up.
I'd really appreciate some advice. I feel like I've hit a wall.
Best advice? Get over it and move on and you will eventually move on. Can't move on? Then that means your getting obsessed with her and you will look desperate, and desperate means your needy and needy means your not attractive.
CHAT