she just got a new car, mustang, well her boyfriend got it for her actually. she asked if i wanted to go out and see it, and i did because i was leaving for class anyway. i wanted to DLV her/the car somehow but couldnt think of anything. What do you guys got in mind?

maybe u could DLV it by saying "Yea its nice...but it looks like every other Mustang on the road"....something to make it seem not as amazing

Why DLV her?

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DON'T DLV her, because then she associates negative feelings with you. I would instead turn it into a BF destroyer unless he's the sugar daddy and you're the sex toy, then I'd thank him.

My friend that I've been trying to sleep with (ruined it a long time ago unfortunately, so it's a lot harder to fix now) has a BF and he bought a boat. She was at first thrilled about getting to ride around in the boat, then after I said some things about how he doesn't seem to be planning fo their future the way she is, doesn't seem financially stable unless his parents take care of him and the fact that I mentioned the parents just tied it into her anger about how he seems to love his mommy more than he loves her. I could have and should have made a move, cause she probably would have loved me for it, but I didn't, because at the time I didn't know things I know now.

Remember when running BF destroyers to associate the bad feelings with him and the good feelings with you and be careful to seperate the two, so that you don't accidentally cockblock yourself.

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hmm interesting
where can i find more information on boyfriend destroyers, just so i can have a good understanding when i go my own way with it?

yeah i just found some on britollair
learning something new for different situations every day

ladies beware

It's a lot better than making her feel bad though, right? You make her realise that you make her feel everything she's missing, everything she's desiring and so you become something that she is happy for, not something she feels any guilt over. Use it to empower her.

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Don't DLV her, but a funny Neg would be that she drives it to make up for penis size A possible side effect could be her connecting in her mind to the BF making up for something, and then you have cracked the dam.

Rule of thumb.

Only neg someone when they've been bad. Overusing the neg as a DHV, can get you into hot water. I'm realizing that now as I go.

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That may be how you go about using negs, but I tend to pepper my conversation with them. As long as they are fun and funny and you pull her into your frame and get her busting on you back, then it isn't a problem.

If you are looking for some more info on negging, check out my negging report in the downloads section.

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> As long as they are fun and funny and you pull her into your frame and get her busting on you back, then it isn't a problem.

Yeah I don't know, I find when I neg the girl sometimes she bitch tests me back harder.

Maybe my body language is incongruent with my cocky dialogue. Thanks for the tips though.

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