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PostPosted: Fri Feb 20, 2015 8:08 am 
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You guys keep arguing about whether or not girls like a guy who has friends...

Yes.

Connections would make you more powerful. Power would make you more attractive.

But this guy was asking HOW he can get a kick ass social circle...

The question you've first gotta ask yourself is this...

"Why the fuck would anyone want to be my friend?"

What do you bring to the table? What value do you provide?

A very simple and relevant example could be... You're the guy who always brings girls around. That makes EVERYONE want to be your friend. Trust me.

So there is your value... you're the player of the group. Now, you've got something to offer everyone. You know you've got something to bring to the table. So now, when you talk to other guys, you won't feel like such a useless piece of shit because you can actually give something to them. Not just be a value leech.

You can will help them be better with girls. They will help you with say... maybe you meet a group of rich dudes outside some nice night club. They might look to you because you can help them meet girls... and you might look to them because they can help you make more money. Your personalities rub off on each other. You both give something and you both get something.

The only reason there is ever a relationship between two people is that there is an equal exchange of value between the two parties. If you don't offer anything of value... fix that shit. Then people will want to be your friend.


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PostPosted: Fri Feb 20, 2015 9:15 pm 
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The only reason there is ever a relationship between two people is that there is an equal exchange of value between the two parties. If you don't offer anything of value... fix that shit. Then people will want to be your friend
Well put.

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