I'm dating a girl SPAM, who is 27 and still a virgin. Last time, I went caveman on her after steady kino escalation, but I freaked out when I saw that she was really scared, lol. Still it could have been token resistance, but I'm not sure about it. I talked to her about it, that I think it's really unconventional to be a virgin at 27, and she said that she wants to lose it, but he's waiting for Mr. Right... jaja. I hanged out with her many times, always kinoing, making cocky funny jokes, doing comfort routines, which she responds well. Only thing I don't like is that she keeps mentioning her ex boyfriend of 8 years, (who never fi*****d or fu***d her)

Anyway, what modification do I need to make to the game for older virgins generally?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j8ZF_R_j0OY

jk jk. It's basically a means of compliance. Check out this link on Chief's compliance latter.
http://chiefpua.com/outer-game/
Before she is going to have sex with you, she should be willing to want to do other things with you first. Make sense? Also try not to show that you are needy for it. Sorry for the short response, but I am about to head out. You got this!

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Sex holds a ton of emotional value to this girl. She is the opposite of a club chick. If you build her attraction and make her hot it will send up red flags in her mind and she will get the hell out of dodge.

You have to make her feel safe and comfortable. Does she have a lot of guy friends? Or does she have more girl friends than guys?

I ask because these are two very different types of women. But you have to sleep with her quickly or be locked out forever.

If she has a ton of guy friends then you can just lay back and game other women (doesn't matter if she knows) and just be cool with her. When ever you get the opportunity escalate until she stops you. Then go back a few escalation notches and start over again. Over and over and over again until she leaves of gives in. The trick with these women is to show them that you care about them, but you aren't afraid of her leaving. and that you have options.

She will return.

If she has more female friends. She is most likely the type of woman who invests in one man. You will have to display to her that she is special and you only have eyes for her. Don't come off as a slick player. Be genuine, honest and vulnerable before the escalation portion. You have to connect with her on a deep emotional level. Not saying tell her your fears or start crying or anything like that.

More like...share personal stories with her. I have a formula for creating a personal story out of nothing that I use.

I'll ask something like "so how was your day?"

"I went to work had an awesome lunch and saw the most beautiful sunset in my life!" - she says.

I go for the least eventful subject in order to slip this in under the radar...work.

Deep rapport formula - take the topic then relate it to something in your childhood, finally relate that childhood relation to something present day and present it as if you arrived to an epiphany in front of her.

I usually go off the top of my head in order to keep my honor. So it's real.

First introduce the topic into your childhood.

"I remember when I was a kid I always wanted to work. I had all of these things I wanted to buy but my mother never would get them for me." - then get confirmation from her to make sure she is hooked. "Does that make sense?"

her: "yes...(she may tell you something in return or just say yes)"

Next discover some lesson in the childhood situation.
"When I got my workers permit it made me feel independent. Like I'll be able to get what ever I want now." - Second confirmation to keep her on the story and so you aren't blabbering too much. "You know what I mean?"

her: "yes...(she may tell you something in return or just say yes)"

Finally, link it to the present.

"Now, it's like whenever I go to work I get that same feeling of independence." Get a final confirmation from her. "Does that make any kind of sense?"

You have to deliver the last part as though you are realizing it in the moment. I just came up with that as I was typing this out for you. Which is a true story, and I actually did just learn something about myself. I love when I get the opportunity to whip this out.

Then break the deep rapport and take things back to light and fun.

Do this one or 2 more times and she will have fallen in love with you. At which point: escalate until she stops you. Then go back a few escalation notches and start over again. Over and over and over again until she leaves of gives in. The trick with these women is persistence and sleeping with them as quickly as possible. You do not lose any points by being this aggressive. In fact she gets turned on by the fact that you respect her boundaries, but you are attracted to her so much that you can't help yourself.

If she leaves. She will return. Just don't become apologetic like you did anything wrong. It will send red flags to her that maybe you have ulterior motives.

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