For anyone curious this is a little back story what I've been dealing with: post898691.html#p898691

Quick Summary

Met this girl two/three weeks ago at a meeting exchanged numbers, got solid IOI's, I was good. Planned to meet several times and failed. Finally hung out a few days ago(4 hour hangout). Lots of kino, massages and petting. Nothing blatantly sexual like fondling, mind you.

Need help understanding this...

So the "date"/hangout is going well, lots of kino like I mentioned. I use a badly timed, poorly executed gambit to try and kiss her. She flinches as I try to kiss her and turns away. I sort of linger and try to ease her into the kiss. She then tells me, "I have a boyfriend". This is 4 hours into the date and after a lot of kino. So after it is awkward for about 10 seconds and I just resume from where I left off before the kiss attempt, just being hella cool and entertaining. We get into more petting and massaging. At this point I'm smelling her and examining sensual parts of her body like her neck and back. For the next 30 minutes we basically just sort of play with the tension. I pull her in like I'm going to kiss her and it feels more natural this time. I don't go for the kiss tho just sort of tease. Just before we say goodbye I pull her in one last time, get her in real close and join foreheads. I wish her a good night and so forth and she pecks me on the lips.

Questions

1. What does this mean? What do you guys think she is thinking? Where do I stand?

2. What is my next move, I haven't contacted her for a few days.

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Seems to me like you went for the kiss too early the first time but you recovered nicely. The time to kiss her was at the end of the date when she was feeling you more and gave you a peck, you missed your shot. Maybe she has a bf or maybe she doesn't, it doesn't matter. But next time read the IOI's a little better. And just because she gave you a small kiss don't assume you can pick up where you left off from last time, run your game, build up the attraction again and when if feels right take it further than last time. If she mentions the bf again don't even respond to it, play it off like you did last time.
If it were me my next move would be to text her casually and tell her you're going out with some friends to "hangout(or whatever bullshit)" and ask her if she'd like to join. Run your game the same as last time, just read her better. Good luck my friend, update us on what happens.

Solid advice. Definitely will continue to run game but for some reason I feel she's hooked. She felt hooked from before I even kissed her. Will update eventually.

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UPDATE

Summary

Met this chick 4 weeks ago but only hungout with her for the last week, every other day or so. The very first day I tried to kiss her she hesitated. She told me she had a BF, eventually she still kissed me later that night. Throughout the week steady build up of kino and kissing, I f-closed last night. Roughly about a week from first hangout to f-close.

The confusing part

after we had sex she was asking me a lot of questions and telling me that she felt super guilty cuz of BF. She said she has never cheated on her boyfriend nor moved this fast with anyone in a relationship. I console her and try to make her feel better. She tells me that she feels support with me and that she appreciates that. Turns out she isn't really happy with her BF and was contemplating breaking up. So we kiss goodbye and I drop her off, everything is cool.

Everything is not cool

This morning we exchange some texts and I tell her a few naughty things. She texts me, "speaking of that, I don't want to do anything like we did last night until we know each other better..." I did tell her last night I was a sexual person and I like my girls to be naughty. She also mentioned in the same text, "I know you're a sexual person and I know you won't like that. I don't want to change you so if you don't like that we can forget that ever happened." I text her back. "sorry. That is a problem. I had a great time together tho. Wish we could have continued this."

What should I expect? Is there a way to salvage this? Can I do anything to entice her to come back? What should my next move be?

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Note to self: Don't Trip

Update

So I texted her today something along the lines of "hey can we talk". She responded and were meeting up to chat. She seemed pretty casual. How do I escalate this? How much should I push?

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