ok guys so heres the deal, theres this gurl who whenever we are in groups is always hookin up wit me, if were evr out wit friends shes my hook up buddy for the night, than the nxt day shell tlk n tlk my head off, so i start thinkin kool maybe shes gettin really into me. but than when i ask her 2 hang out her awnser is always DEF yet it nvr fuckin happens, some excuse is always produced. Basically its like when were together shes mine for the night but more than the night and its like no way. its frustrating she keeps textin me, makin out wit me, showin gerneral intrest in me. but othing evr comes out of it..... whats a newbie 2 the game 2 do HLP!

This is easy. Next time you two are out with friends and she wants to climb all over you, start gaming hot girls right in front of her. Flirt, get phone numbers, kiss, etc. Leave with a different girl if possible. This is called creating a jealousy plotline. You have to first decide that your time is valuable, and you will reinforce this idea in her mind by spending time with other women. If you are successful, she will be the one asking you for your time instead of you offering it to her.

I was basically going to tell you the same thing. Take this advice.

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Yes! Jealousy plot line is always a good bet, especially if you have already built that attraction and she's into you.

However, if you happen to be in a situation where it would be difficult to game other girls, you need to slow things down with her. (Mystery always likes to say, "By slowing down, you actually speed things up.") Give her a couple negs and protect your personal space. "Hands off the merchandise." "It's 5 bucks every time you touch me." Your kino should be a reward for her, not an expectation. You need to push-pull this girl like crazy to get the cat-string theory working to your advantage.

Sad to say it, but right now, you are the one getting gamed.

thanx guys... what ur sayin makes total sense so im def guna try it n ill totally post up the results.. .thanx again

really quick tho.. im not sure about the whole jealousy plotline simply because, well this gurl has no prob getting guys, what if she starts running the jealousy plotline on me just to spite me??? and also after constantly texting me i ask 2 meet up with her which surprise surprise dosent happen. But than something weird happens she askes me 2 hang out with her at somepoint during the week... she wants 2 meet up 4 lunch or sum shit. A) Should i pursue it or let the plans die like she always does B) if i do go 2 lunch with her should i kiss her and be all touchy or should i let her dictate the mood and see how she act, like if she acts aggresive than so will i or should i assert myself from the start??