| Hi! To start off, I'm trying my best to improve myself in every angle I can and your answers/suggestions or heck - even advice if you wanna call it that- matter a lot to me. So, here we go.
Imagine yourself in a situation where you are with a group of 5 friends out of which 3 of your friends are girls and the the rest two are guys, including yourself. Now, I'm pretty sure a lot of newbies or guys with less social skills would find themselves difficult in a situation where the other guy in YOUR group starts trying to take the lead and show others that he's the man and he controls YOU. In other words, the other guy in the group attempts to make you feel less important or show that he's better at you in everything just to impress the girls in the group. My question here repeats itself: How would an Alpha Male react to this, and take control of this situation and make that other guy shut up?
Another situation, what would an alpha male do if another guy asks him to do something for him whilst others are watching and you can't even say no because you don't want to show that you are "rude". For example, imagine you're in a class seated with a guy who thinks he's the shit, and every five minutes or so he asks you to do something for him. For instance, this guy asked me to bring my portable hard disk next week because he wanted to copy something so I replied saying to remind me the day before by texting me but he completely rejected that opinion and instead he told me to add it to my calender for next week (you know, on your phone as an alarm), at this point I was so pissed and didn't reply him. Anyhow, what would an alpha male do here?
How would an Alpha Male take control of situations like these?
I know these situations might present myself as a pussy, but the truth is I don't know how to socialize which is exactly why I'm trying to learn. After all, we all were AFCs before we learnt shit, so please avoid commenting negative shit. Thanks for reading!
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