Hey,

I would just like to start off with a quick story, two years ago I was living in a university dorm and I spent the first few months interacting and partying with people. So there was this one chick (about 8/10ish hb) who caught my eye, as I started to get to know her better I found out there was more to her than just a pretty body/face, she seem interesting and I started to fall for her, we start going to class together, eating lunch together, hanging in each others' room and having deep conversations. So one night I've decided to ask her out, needless to say she told me she was a lesbian! I was disappointed but knew it was out of my control, so I continue to party a bit more to get my mind off it. Later that night I went up to her room, to invite her down with a bunch of us, to my disbelief I saw her in bed with a guy I considered a close friend of mine at the time. Needless, I was crushed and start to drink heavily and found myself isolated by my dormates. Months later, I over hear a couple of girls having a conversation outside my room saying how they don't talk to me because I was ugly and fat and that's the reason why the girl rejected me. At the time weighted 240 lbs and was your typical video game geek spending countless hours on my PC and laptop. That moment would change my life forever, I would start going to the gym regularly and started watching what I ate. Today I have lost up to 85 lbs and maintain the healthy lifestyle.

Now you might be wondering, why a guy like me would need help talking to women? The answer is simple: I always say the wrong things and make situations awkward. I'm not much of a bar or club guy but I have experience talking to women in class, at the gym, playing sports, when I am on vacations, at sports bars and a leafs/jays games. I found that there are women that I find physically attractive that I find attractive as well, however when I open that big mouth of mine the wrong shit always comes out, leading to girls being creeped out and myself getting ditched. That why I'm here to build some "game" and to develop some self esteem that has been beating out of me, so that I am confident enough to approach women again.

Cheers!