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PostPosted: Sat Jan 31, 2015 7:06 pm 
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I've been learning alot from Corey Wayne.
He continually stresses that the woman should do 70-80% of the contact (after a couple dates).
He also stresses to never use the phone or text for anything but setting dates.
He says they will be calling three times a day.
I can't ever see this being realistic.
Why are the going to contact you continually if you set a date and don't talk on the phone?
It doesn't make any sense.

I noticed some of the techniques work, but the girls respond similarly (low commitment, game).
I can't see long term committed relationships evolving out of this.
I have been in about 5 3+ year relationships. I had minimal if any game.
The only reason I ended them is the girls weren't the quality I wanted to have children with.


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PostPosted: Sat Jan 31, 2015 9:06 pm 
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Probably better off not listening to this guy.

Takes more to have a LTR than a one-night stand.


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PostPosted: Sun Feb 01, 2015 12:39 am 
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I never heard of the guy but I completely agree.

The women that I talk to all do 70-80% of all the initiated contact. I call them sometimes too, but no where near as often as they call me. A couple of my chicks call 2 times a days, so there isn't really any room to call them. But you have to feel the situation out. Eventually a girl will pullback a bit - wanting more investment from you, and thats when you call them once, and they'll be back calling you again until they feel like you're not doing your part (20%).

Its not something I plan though. You have to feel your girls out and where they are at their levels of interest for you. When its high, you don't have to call or text them at all. You just have to answer and respond to the text that they send you.

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PostPosted: Sun Feb 01, 2015 1:32 am 
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Interesting Eddie.
When you talk on the phone do you socialize/get to know each other or only set up dates?
Is socializing on the phone to be avoided entirely?
I notice the bit I open up on the phone, they slightly cool off the following days.

So I suppose after dates you say "give me a call"


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PostPosted: Sun Feb 01, 2015 1:41 am 
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I agree with not calling or texting unless you are setting up a meet too. Especially if it's a first time meet up after you get the number.

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Interesting Eddie.
When you talk on the phone do you socialize/get to know each other or only set up dates?
Is socializing on the phone to be avoided entirely?
I notice the bit I open up on the phone, they slightly cool off the following days.

So I suppose after dates you say "give me a call"

I socialize with women on the phone man.. I love talking to girls. Its a hobby of mine. Its fun.. So when they call me we'll talk for 20-60mins sometimes more if I have the time.

It all comes down to your level of confidence and skill honestly. I'm an entertaining dude, so I can keep a girl highly entertained for hours on the phone and keep the interest high. But i've also had a lot of practice. I've been calling women on the phone since I was about 10 years old. Not actively of course, but i had a girl I would speak to at ten " with her mom and my dads permission, that i would talk to for about an hour a day. And I've had hundreds of other girls Iv'e talked with for hours on the phone since then. I wasn't always good at it; sometimes I'd be nervous and sometimes I would be awkward. Especially when I really wanted the girl.. But you build resistance to this emotions with time and action and you get over it.

So i do it because i like it man. And i like to talk to girls.. I'm all about building relationships and genuinely connecting with the women I'm sleeping with. but thats not for everyone. Some guys are a bit colder, and just want to bang and move on.

Not my thing.. At least not anymore. I've raised my standards and I honestly don't enjoy sleeping with any girl that I can't have a long conversation with. That shits over for me. I've already done it.

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PostPosted: Sun Feb 01, 2015 4:31 am 
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This is just over analyzing shit.

If you dated the girl and slept with her, who gives a shit who contacts who, let it flow naturally.

Assuming you have your shit together

Now if you suck balls and this is the only girl you can get and have no more options

I suggest fucking this up and start a relationship from abundance not scarcity.

You want woman to initiate alot of contact with you?

Sorround yourself with lots women in your life.

To me, who contacts who is irrelevant if i'm getting what i want.

Now if you're not hitting your goals then there are bigger issues at hand than who contacts who first

But i'll microloop your question and say this

someone mentioned above an "Intuition", if you feel your overly investing, back off, let her invest also.

But once your comfortable with eachother its all natural , do whatever, thats why you get to know eachother

get the vibes

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I suggest fucking this up and start a relationship from abundance not scarcity.
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PostPosted: Sun Feb 01, 2015 8:07 pm 
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But once your comfortable with eachother its all natural , do whatever, thats why you get to know eachother
This. Just flow it. Don't overthink things. Let things naturally progress.


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PostPosted: Tue Feb 03, 2015 1:49 am 
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^^ Best advice

Studying all the PUA does tend to make you overthink everything.
What's scary is how good some of the techniques work.
Be careful what you wish for comes to mind.


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