I’ve started seeing this girl recently and I’m having trouble figuring out what dates we could go on. Last weekend, I went to her house to watch a movie. Luckily, her parents went out, but her brother was still home so we didn’t have sex, just a heavy make out session. I’m free this Friday, and wanted to hang out with her again, but I’m not sure what there is to do. I looked into ice skating, but the nearest rink is only open from 9:30 p.m.- 12 on Friday, when it has this $25 event. The issue with this is that it’s expensive, and if we’re there that late then I might not have an opportunity to escalate as much as I would want to since I’m in high school and my parents definitely wouldn’t happy about me being out past 12. We went bowling with a group of friends like 4 weeks ago, so I wouldn’t want to do that again. Anyone have any ideas?

I guess I could tell her we could watch another movie together, but it’d be two weeks in a row of going to her house, and there aren’t any guarantees that her parents/family won’t be home. My parents are kind of strict, and probably wouldn’t let me be alone with a girl at home. Usually when they go out on weekend nights, they tell me that they’re going to be back an hour or two before they actually come back to most likely make sure I don’t have anyone over.

Also, when you were in high school, where did you find a place and time to have sex? Like I said before, my house and her house could be both inconsistent and unreliable so it’s hard for me to really escalate all the way. I thought about maybe having sex in my car, but I drive a standard 4-door sedan and it seems like there would be very cramped if we tried in the backseat. Thanks

For dates:
-take her somewhere for dinner
-offer her a drink in a bar and then just change bars once in a while/meet friends/go to a disco (if you're allowed to go...)
-try to take her to a training session of the sport you do. I do judo and it worked once.
-if you know a special place where you like to go usually by yourself where you feel good and at peace, you could bring her there.

For the sex:
-the house is always the best place
-well, I had sex once in a park... I'm sure you can find something...

Hmm think walks in winter can be cool, or maybe some Ice skating on lakes can be good too. But not if it date at night time.
For a date i dont recommend dinners, if u expect just sex from it, bcs it is kinda too much attention for girl, but it is just my opinion. recommend u some evening drink in some nice bar with nice energy, and not too loud or crowded. Thus loud can be good for easier kino escalation:). Bar shouldnt be with too much light. After date i think sedane is fine if u dont have any other option...

When i was younger and without place, i usually did it in car, or some work place, club, forrest, but i also was sneaking in house when guy was alone at home - that is actually really good bcs it adds some extra excitement to sex...