people who say ''i have oneitis'' or ''i'm experiencing oneitis'' is terribly wrong. it's called being a human and experiencing ''oneitis'' means u still have human emotion in u and are actually attracted to a girl instead of looking at her as a Hb. don't get me wrong when i enter a room i realize who the HB's are but if i actually build feelings for her i don't call it oneitis, its a reminder to myself that i still have an attraction to women instead of using them as trophies a actual relationship might build out of it.

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Correct me if i'm wrong but isn't oneitis when you develop these emotions before starting a relationship/sarging her, and that then effectively decreases your chances with her. I see where your coming from, when you really like a girl but is it one-itis if the feeling is mutual????

i kind of agree with you, its a term PUAs came up with to give a negative connotation to that feeling, the point being that PUAs are not meant to stick with one girl when still practicing pick up

at the end of the day we are all human and even if we arn't interested in it right now, we all want to find someone u can love. but people are making oneitis (essentialy the beginning signs that u see potential in a girl that u can love) as bad. my fellow pua's i advise u all to embrace this feeling and if u feel regret after kissing another girl because of ur ''oneitis'' for a previous girl that IS GOOD. it means we all arn't the robots that we are being molded into.

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yep, i agree. id much rather have one girl that i can grow to love than going with a bunch of girls i couldnt give 2 shits about

noo..

One-itis means HUNG UP on the person. You are sooo attached to her that you would die if she didn't talk to you everyday. that is the negative connotations that PUA attached to it.

It is ok to stick with one girls, after all in the end, we all one to stick with the one girl, but this just means that you would literally die if she didn't like you anymore or something..

not to be confused.

bro don't kid urself. i realize what the side effects of ''oneitis'' are but all i'm saying is its natural to be emotionaly and mentaly attached to a girl u really like. as much as these might it have negative effects on ur relationship with her, its natural. i'm just sick of people relating this ''oneitis'' emotion as a evil thing that u should repress at all costs. people are starting to teach to devalue women so this oneitis emotion won't come up but that is wrong. i personaly love women and even though i don't always show it i respect them. and when i realy like a certain girl i show show her effection but i deffinately do not come across as needy which is a turn off to women. now don't get me wrong i'm not anti pua and the way we work is peer gold but the bottom line is to not repress a feeling of love for a women which is what people are relating oneitis to. don't be needy but its alright to have a overwhelming feeling of care for a women

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This is perhaps the most nonsensical thread I have ever read.

And before you challenge my statement, why don't you read my post:

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King Korona-

I think you need to do your research before you start making irrational statements. One-Itis does not imply a negative connotation what so ever.


How does expressing human emotion and attraction to a girl prove that having oneitis is wrong?
Look up the definition. . .Fuck it, I'll just provide it for you. http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=one-itis
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What the hell is your point? He didn't object to that.

King Korona, I think what you are trying to express is that having a one-itis isn't a bad thing. PUAs should not give it such a negative connotation. . .That's fine, I agree with you. But to say that "having a one-itis is dumb" is counterintuitive to your whole argument. . .

Oooh check out the expert.

I think Korona what you're saying is the typical attitude one receives from his friends, other puas etc when suffering from a bout of one-itis is usually along the lines of go out and sarge and get over that bitch, as opposed to maybe chasing the girl you really want.

What? Of course there is a negative connotation to one-its. One-itis is (as stevenadrien said before), being HUNG UP over one chick. How could there not be a negative connotation with that!? I dont know too many guys who like that feeling. It is damn near impossible to PU the girl you have one-itis over. You ussually get so nervous around them that you cant even think straight. That is a VERY negative feeling. And HELL NO you cant just go out and "chase the girl" you have one-itis over. If you think so, you have been misinformed n the real definition of one-itis.

I am also of the school of thought that "one-itis" isn't a negative thing.

Though I suppose, however, that it depends on your definition of one-itis. My one-itis is an ex girlfriend. I have had sex with her. She is a legitimate one-itis, in my opinion.

If you are going by the definition of one-itis that says she is someone you haven't ever had and thus should not have any really strong feelings for, then I agree, having a one-itis like that is stupid.

Regardless, I think anyone that talks down upon having a legitimate one-itis is totally bullshit. They either have never experienced such a thing, are lying, are emotionally retarded, or perhaps, on the flip side, just really emotionally strong?

jay wa, for one i think ur missing my point. just alot of people i've talked to have a disturbed deffinition of oneitis. (thx for the deff) my point is a lot of pua's i have talked to and even in some pua's posts it seems they're relating oneitis to liking a girl beyond the stage of ''i wanna pick her up tonight'' essentialy begining stages of love. infact some people get so caught up in oneitis they decide its impossible to pick the girl which it should be the opposite. if ur ''hung up'' on a girl that means she shows trates that u desire in a long term mate. if anything ur game should be stronger around the oneitis and i think its being overused as an excuse. thats y i am saying its dumb.

p.s. jay wa y so hostile? u seem offended.

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trust me dawg i don't even have a remote oneitis. also being offensive isn't proving anything so don't even bother bro.

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One-itis, is loving some1 and not getting it back in return. Sticking to that one girl regardless and having wishful thinking "Well, one day she will notice me". I agree with the PUA definition of the word, of course its nuthing wrong with loving the girl, but this term completely demoralizes the art of being a alpha male letting your defenses down and being used.

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I wasn't being offensive i was trying to explain to Jay on your behalf.