quick question guys.it is an inner game issue..i have a very hot friend who is kinda loose if you know what i mean but who gets offended when i escalate with her..i normally see her with different guys and i have heard stories that she sleeps around...my question is why would she sleep with many guys but get offended every time i talk about sex with her forget about even sleeping with me? it truly baffles me..i completely cut her off because she wasn't offering much as a friend and it did damage to my self esteem that this chick would fuck so many guys but act like a virgin around me..was i right in cutting her off? and incase she gets in touch what should i do? mind you every time i try to isolate her she kinda comes up with an excuse and gets offended when i talk about sex.It has truly baffled.female psychology lol.

Maybe you are/were a part of a social circle she is a part of and she doesn't want to fuck inside of that circle.

This isn't an inner game issue. This is a practical question.

Dunno, could be many things. But once you are where you are, there is no point in chasing. Move on and, if she gets in touch with you, play it cool.

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Maybe she doesn't sleeps around with guys and it's just your imagination. She really could be a virgin.

What kinda reasons does she makes to not had sex with you?

says she is a strict christian and wants to stay a virgin till marriage which is pure crap because i am fairly certain she is not a virgin.she dresses like a slut parties and her friends are sluts.

Wait so you haven't even heard she's fucked someone? Also why do you have 2 threads on this girl. To disregard more advice?

Honestly man, I've dealt with this kinda girls a lot and it's better if you just move on. I believe ya on what you say but that girl wont sleep with ya. It will take too much time for you to escalate her and then it wont feel that good anyway knowing that she was just a slut and you wasted that much time on getting her. The better thing to do in this kinda situation is just leave it and move on.

Couple things:

1) You don't know she's a slut if you don't know anyone who has had sex with her, or if you haven't had sex with her yourself... That's speculation. Lots of girls dress provocatively and act flirty.

2) The answer to your question could be practically anything. She may not see you that way; another user here mentioned you may be in the same social circle, which is a solid possibility... I'd also question if maybe you've blown her off in the past or if she knows you see her as a slut. That could be enough to turn her off as well.

Just because she has a lot of sex, does not mean she wants it from just anyone. Let's even pretend she's slept with 200 guys. How many men do you think she has seen standing near her? How many have spoken to her? Even if she has dozens of partners every year, she's selecting these men out of a MUCH larger pool. No matter how much she sleeps around, most guys don't make the cut.

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i froze her for a while.she finally got in touch.

her: i really miss you.
me: i miss you too.

it has been a week since she didn't say anything after that nor did i.How should i play it from here? should i keep ignoring her?

She got validated as opposed to a playful/leading exchange. An alternate reply could have been 'how much do u miss me.'

now that i have replied with i miss you too what should i do? and i am sure incase i get in touch she is gonna ask why i was ignoring her.what sbould be my reply?

I wouldn't of posed a question if i were you.. I would of called her into action. That works better for me.

SO when she said: I really miss you

I would of said: Then call me

And I would of taken things from there.. Don't reciprocate. Call a woman into action after a freeze out. Otherwise it gets stale.

Now you have to leave it; otherwise your freeze out will strike as being ingenuine

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The 'how much do you miss me' comment would have been followed with a leading exchange that encourages her to 'prove' how much she missed him by inviting her to meet. If a no-go, who cares he only invested a few moments of time.
Again she got validated; do as the previous poster says and leave it if and until she responds again. She may never, as you cancelled out the opportunity to maintain the position that she was so desperately wanting to give you. Segue to a meetup if she pings again. Lead, don't follow.

Not too many women I know would of responded to that, thats all. Especially not under these conditions..But yeah, just let it go again bro. She'll try once more. Most women do the same shit.

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