So I met this girl a couple of years ago and there was always a good bit of sexting Going on but nothing came of it. So I broke up with my girlfriend a few months ago and asked her if she just wants to bang, no strings attached and she said yeah. So we always make plans for Saturday or Friday night and she always pussys out on the day and says she's sick or some shit and then I try reschedule and the same happens as if she's never bailed before. So I stopped texting her and then yesterday she messaged me saying "I need to get laid, just putting that out there". Then I started trying to organise the fuck again and now it's at a point where we are planning to get a hotel next Friday cos we have nowhere else to do it.. I don't really like her at all but shes just putting it on a plate so dunno what I should do? Keep my balls in tact and just bail?

Is called ASD (Anti slut defense). She doesn't want you....or anyone else thinking she is like that, even if she SAYS she is.

Set up your 'meeting' to watch a movie, and some drinks.

'watch a movie' is girl code for 'let's fuck'.

_________________
They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

Good advice! Thank you!

You are a sucker. She does not pussy out. She doesn't keeps bailing because, she wants to keep someone, anyone on the hook while she looks for someone like Zyzz. Why not just have her come over or you go over there? I know you are reeling from the breakup but, I think doing actual PU and heavy cold approach for awhile will keep you from these types of women.