On my last night sarging things where going as usual... Meeting with usual friends and girls from my social circle on this hot bar... It was a Special occasion because on the next day people wasn't going to work and a lot of older people went out too creating some sort of mixture that's unusual in this city...

And then I spot this absolutely stunning brunnette... damn she was too damn hot. She Met all my weak points for beauty... Great bod, Brown eyes, tanned... you get my idea.

She was on a spotlight table with some older guys that obviously where paying for everything but she wasn't Giving IOI's to any of those guys.

I'm a recent graduate... have no money of my own... But usually do well with girls approaching and just going in for it...

But the situation beat me completely... I didn't feel with the right weapons to succesfully create an impression strong enough to get her chasing me, or attracted.

How do you do this?? It's the first 10 I've seen here, and because of age differences, I don't think I'll be seeing her around (she looked 30 something, I'm 23 but look about 27).

I think her looks got to me too damn much and I was just too obvious from the first moment we looked at each other... blowing everything up. Couldn't get myself to talk to her.

I need advice on this so it doesn't happen ever again, don't want to lose another 10

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These are the best answers.

Thanks Jack

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Experiencing this for the first time is part of the remedy. It's like breaking the ice for the first time. Next time it wont take you by such a surprise. You'll be better prepared for having gone through it and playing various successful scenarios through your mind.

Also when the pressure is really on with a girl, you'll notice your inner game said you weren't good enough. Has happened to all of us at one time or another.

Instead change the frame from I'm going to go over there and pick that girl up.
Too I'm going to go over there, open her and see if she interested and talks back to me.

One thing I did as a teen was to look for imperfections in a girl. There is almost always something that will help you take her down from the pedestal. If not, try to look past her makeup and clothes.

By meeting a shitload of beauties you will get used to them. Just keep trying.

I was told that 'female beauty' is a shittest.

Usually works for me to be honest and start talking right away about her hot bod.

You picture her picking up her dry cleaning on a tuesday with sweats & no makeup on. It's largely a facade my dude.

After seeing a few 10s, you start to get desensitized to it. I used to get AA when I saw a perfect 10 when I first started out in game. Now I'm more motivated to approach a 10 than a 7 or 8.

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I wrote an article called " How To Disrupt Her Reality" for EliteDaily a couple years ago. Go look it up, because it holds the answer to your question. Just google it. unfortunately I can not post the link here because of forum rules, but I'm sure you'll be able to find it.

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Uhh.. thats the first 10 you see?

Thas your problem.

You are not around 10s enough.

Get your lifestyle together in a way that you can be around alot more 10s.

Because 10s need to be in abundance in your life for you to consistantly date them.

My theory is you approach 100 - 10s and at least 1 will date you, assuming you got your shit together you might even have 1/10 success. And thats pretty good.

Moral of the story

You'll never succeed with a 10 in the longrun unless you can easily replace them.

Which is not hard to do with the proper set up.

Go up to a 10 thinking she's the only 10 you'll see in a year and you're going already fucked. Even if she does fuck you, you will get so needy she will leave you.

vs.

Now, go up to a 10, when on a week to week basis you're sorrounded by them and you interact with them. Do you think you'll give a fuck? And she'll be attracted cus she knows you've got your shit together and can get girls of that caliber.

Thinking you can just go up to the only 10 you seen all year and deliver a magic line that will make her bang you, is ridiculous.

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Nice post

Also your 10 could be my 7. Your 7 could be my 10. In the end, they're all humans just like you.

Any average girl can look like a dimepiece with proper makeup and the right outfit. It really doesn't take much. If you have any attractive female friends, you've likely been privy to seeing them without makeup and half the time they don't even look like the same person.

She's just like any other chick out there, with exception that you find her very attractive...she does groceries, poops, wipes her clit after she pisses, and breathes air just like everybody else.

Your 10 is my 2.