Former neckbeard...new aesthetic...can't post pics but rest assured.

Cliffs:
-SHE OBVIOUSLY kinda likes you, is looking deep into your eyes laughing at everything you say etc etc....as casual environment.

How do I elevate this

I was thinking of just saying 'I can't help but notice how pretty you are'
How do we get to the sex bit?

Our endless small chat goes nowhere and then they think I don't want it as I can't seem to elevate the friendly flirtatious chat into something else


I just can't find the words man...this isn't even approaching this is definitely chemistry it's just I can't suggust or say the right things. I am new to this...very new.

Just whip it out dude.

While I'd love to see you try this, I really think you'd be better off just saying "hi, I'm X" and smiling... You don't need a line or a routine.

Just be calm, collected and confident, and smile. Be interested in what she has to say, and then after a few minutes, if things are going well - you say something like:

"You know, you seem pretty cool - you and I should grab a beer. What's your schedule look like?"

Is this a worker at the spa? Are you asking how to get a hand job at the spa or something?

a worker in the spa? Move on... she is paid to appear interested in you, most likely she is not and just doing that for a bigger tip.

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Here is my advice if this is a girl that works at a spa.

Leave her be. She is paid to be nice to people. Go out and meet girls out on the street, at bookstores, coffee houses, clubs, bars etc. When you get some experience under your belt and understand what you do that turns girls off and what you do that works and when you are confident in your ability to spot when a girl is really attracted to you then you can progress and see if you can really figure out how to fine tune your game enough to see the difference in a waitress that is flirting for tips and a waitress that really is flirting.

But without the solid foundation, hitting on hired guns is going to fuck up your head. Before I really go into game I can't tell you how many times I hit on girls that were behind a register or bartending, thinking that she seemed really into me. I couldn't understand for the life of me why I might be able to pull a number here and there but it never turned into a date ever. And if I found a girl on the street that was as flirtatious as a waitress, it was on. It was easy to get a number and to get her to meet up and go out. I was in denial that girls could flirt that well while in reality it meant nothing to them.

I'm not sure he's said that she actually works at the spa, has he?

I assumed she did not... that's what my advice was based on.

If she does, then that's a different story altogether.

" So whats your number? how about we go out for lunch when this is over? "

Forward actions will explain your intention so you don't have to.

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