I was flirting with a girl all night at my party, similar interests, etc and we went to my room to show her my songs (I play guitar). I starting making out with her, was on top of her, feeling her up, and then..... my roommates started yelling for me to get more firewood with them. Over and over and over. I had to go get it. When I got back, I suggested we go back in my room but she declined and said shes not that kind of girl but she likes me. I then said I'd like to take her out and she said shed like that very much. Then she started kissing me again. I got her number. When she left, she kissed me bye in front of all her friends (so I think she likes me). I called her the next night to make plans at the hookah bar, and she said she would love to. She called me the next night (I assume to cancel) but I was busy and by the time I called her back she was sleeping. She texted me today this, "Hey it's (name)... I have to cancel tonight cus it's a friend's birthday Can we reschedule? " I replied, "Cool no problem. I'll call you later this week to reschedule". She replied, "Thanks " immediately.

I texted her a recording of the song Drive by Incubus that I made 2 days later (at the party she said that song was the way to her heart) and she replied, "Wow this was great. Really made me smile. Thank you ". So I replied, "Then my seduction techniques are working. You can return the favor by taking me out to dinner sometime. Sushi would get you extra points." She replied, "Your too good at this." 10 minutes after that text, I figured I'd hit a high note and I'd call to ask her out agin, so I called but she did't answer.

She called me back, we talked for a bit, she asked if I liked sushi and said she'd like to go sometime. Then she called me the "coolest person ever" for sending her the recording. I ask her, "would you like to reschedule meeintg?" She says, "yes I'd like that". I asked about saturday, then she said her mom was coming to town this weekend. I asked about monday night, she said she has sorority chapter (she legitimately does). Then she says her weekdays are crazy because of school. So I say, "when are you free"? She says, "next friday, but my friend may be coming up so I may have to bail". I say, "I'm not commiting to friday. We'll see." So I say, "listen, if you keep bailing, I'm going to stop asking you out. You get 3 chances, and thats it". So she says "ok. we can keep in contact during the week to plan something."

She just texted me out of the blue the next day, "My friend isn't coming up next Friday, so I'm all yours." I responded, "Sounds good. Sushi and hookah it is then. Have a good weekend with your mom "
2 days later, I had a party and invited her. She replied, "Oh thanks!! I'm currently too high to go out but I appreciate the invite." I replied, "haha ok."

That was Sunday. I waited 2 days, texted her a funny picture yesterday (she likes Shakespeare and Game of Thrones, so I sent her this ), and she hasnt responded. Its been like 14 hours. Our date is in 2 days, and we havent even set up a time. She just said, "im all yours friday", but we havent set up a time. I dont wanna be too pushy by contacting her after she didn't reply to my text. Anyways, what should I do?

I think you are overanalyzing it. So what if she didn't reply to your facebook pic. Based on what you written, she's clearly attracted to you, and i don't think you should be concerned. I would contact her on friday to set the time. She'll probably contact you earlier than you will her, so don't worry.

all the best,

Tom

Thanks Tom. It wasn't a facebook pic; I texted her a pic that I thought she would like. But, I'm pretty sure you're right. Thanks for the consolation.

Was a typo, yeah i understood what you wrote. Glad i could help.

14 hrs, no contact, no specific date planned, and you a man of PU have picked a Friday for a date? This is not going to end well Johnny T. For starters, Friday in any larger city is great for partying, for PU, for a variety of fun things rather than a "date." Guaranteed, men like Zyzz or Yaboydave, JB or others that pull often do not pick Friday or Saturday nights for dates. If a woman goes a significant amount of time, I would just assume you guys do not talk anymore until she contacts you assuming, you haven't found someone better. Go do PU. Assume you are going to do PU Friday instead. Cancel the date when she contacts you (that is assuming she gets in touch with you which I doubt she will). Never give a woman you just met or want to bang a Friday night. Maybe a Friday night after a bar because you are going to have pussy.

Well, I texted her Friday (the day of the date) morning, "Hey, we never set up a time. Does 8 pm work for you?" 2 hours later, she replied, "Thats perfect ". She always uses emoticons. I text her back awhile later, "Whats your address? I'll pick you up." She replies with her address. That was 2 pm. 30 minutes before the date, she called me and said, "Listen, I think you're really interesting and all, but I have to cancel the date. I just got out of a relationship (true) and I'm not emotionally ready to date yet." So I say, "ok I understand." Since I was kinda fucked up (I live in college and went to happy hour) I called her back like an idiot and tried convincing her to come anyways. I said, "Listen, we don't have to do anything serious, lets just keep things casual. You can go as slow as you want. I got a hookah at my house and a movie to watch with no one to watch it with." She goes, "Thanks but I'm just not ready, but you'll be the first guy I call when I'm ready." I say, "Ok have a goodnight."

I went out with her roomates friend that night, and he said, "Listen, she likes you, but she did just get out a relationship. Just keep texting her and keep things slow. Ask her out for lunch next time to keep things casual." I do like this girl, but I'm kind of sick of the baggage/time that this is taking. Should I give up or is this something I can salvage? The same exact thing happened with my ex. We had a date, she cancelled, saying she just got out of a relationship. I didnt call her for 3 weeks, at which point she called me back, we went out, and dated for 3 years - so it's not always bullshit that these girls are pulling. They are sometimes genuine excuses

I wont say I told you so. That is a dick move but, I figured it would go this way. If a woman is interested, she is responsive. She texts and is specific. If a woman suddenly becomes unresponsive, any sort of date ambiguity, I assume it is off, and I carry on more PU. I never text to change her mind logically. She feels it is not time to date, she is just out of a relationship, it means at best, I get a booty call lay or I am her backup. I say this without emotion. I am not hurt. It may suck if I rationalize and backwards rationalize it. It just is man. I have been there. Been flaked on. Been her second choice following a breakup.

If you want to read something worth while, checkout the System by Doc Love. It is not necessarily PU. More importantly, it speaks about interest levels, female interest above and below 50%. It speaks about not planning dates on days like Friday night, Saturday, and Sunday being your weekend especially with a woman you just met. Sure, you may in the future once she is your girlfriend but, not right away. You want to have a bunch of nights out at some crazy rave while doing some heavy PU. You want to have several booty calls and girls you fwb. This does not happen when you prioritize them with one of the biggest nights of the week for PU.

You took a shot man. Chalk that up as a victory. I would distance myself from her. If you hangout together within a social circle, see if she has some friends who are single, and emotionally healthy (not out of a breakup). If you met any of her guy friends, they may have game and be someone worth hanging out with. They may have female friends you could see and date. It may leave some doors open. Assume this situation is dead.