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PostPosted: Tue Jan 20, 2015 2:21 am 
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Hi guys,
I'm on a Gap year in Australia and through a few friends I met this girl. We met up and went on dates but then I got the LJBF talk. I know where I went wrong. I'm new to this and at the time I didn't know this world existed. I was too forward in showing my feelings and I also wasn't confident enough on the dates. Is there any way I can save this? E.g. Don't talk to her for a month then start working my game as a fresh start?

Please no "Fuck other girls" because im doing that anyway. Not that she knows them of course.


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PostPosted: Tue Jan 20, 2015 3:03 am 
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Don't put anymore energy into this girl. Go fuck other women and let her find out about it.

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PostPosted: Tue Jan 20, 2015 1:40 pm 
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There's almost no detail in your original post... your ages, what were the dates, did you escalate, make a move, etc? Did you sleep together?

You need to provide a lot more data if you want a useful opinion/advice, here.

Only thing I can see here is that you were too eager and mentioned your feelings... Cause yep, that'll do it. Telling a girl you like her instead of showing her or just simply escalating has caused many guys here a painful LJBF at one time or another.

Stop doing that immediately.


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PostPosted: Tue Jan 20, 2015 7:29 pm 
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The fact that you still want some old girl who gave you a LJBF's talk shows that you still aren't ready to step up to the plate and truly attract women.

You have to practice letting women go man to build yourself up. You having read a few PUA books doesn't qualify you to attract women. It just gives you knowledge, but knowledge is useless if you're not in the proper emotional state to apply it. And this post clearly says that you aren't.

If you truly want to take a step to become more attractive. Erase every bit of contact or information you have for this girl and promise to move on. And then the next time you meet a great girl you like, drop her before you even get started. You have to train yourself in such a way that you truly understand that great women come all the time. There are so many of them, but only great men can have them. You have to become that man first. Stop trying to be in the life of a women who you aren't able to handle yet because you haven't developed yourself fully. Its selfish.

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PostPosted: Fri Jan 23, 2015 1:13 am 
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Okay thanks guys :) Man up and move on. Got it! haha


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