Background meet cougar on Tinder. Great banter, she sends suggestive pics, we go out for a drink on Tuesday. Everything goes great, get the cues, make out and escalate at her car. She has kids at home so we can't go back there, so I leave it alone. Schedules don't line up so I can't see her again until this upcoming Tuesday.

I keep quiet as much as possible, but banter stays there. Friday she messages that she wished she could see me this weekend, so up to that point I was in good shape.

Saturday, she sends one "how are you doing" text. I shoot funny reply back, then no response. Sunday, one word reply. Some followup, but basically one word quips.

WTF? I'm guessing she went out and found some other guy Friday.

So, now I'm getting frozen out but have Tuesday date still on the table. I just want to bang this woman, not sure how to maintain contact at this point?

It's Tinder - you're both dating other people.

Why are you texting and then stressing over no reply instead of just calling her and getting an immediate reply and read on the situation?

Seems like the thing to do........

I guess it was more being amazed at how quickly they'll flake, but I appreciate your answer....simple is best. I'll call this evening.

You should work out your logistics ahead of time so you have a place to fuck these chicks on the first date. A large car or an empty park may work in a pinch.