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Hey guys, gotta few questions about my night last night! Heres the story:
Ok so last night I check out a newer casino in my area. It's got a few clubs inside and I am feeling good about meeting some new ladies. Right off the bat, I see a cute middle eastern girl HB8 with 2 other friends. I immediately open her and we hit it off. I am making all 3 of them laugh while giving HB8 some light kino. I decide to take her to the dance floor.
We are dancing close and its very sexual. I notice that she is returning my kino and is definitely attracted to me so I decide to leave the dance floor and take her somewhere else in the casino to isolate her.
We have a couple shots and are having a good time together. She is sitting very close to me and legs our are touching. I go in for the make out and she complies. However, I am not a big fan of PDA and would rather go somewhere private.
She is not okay with leaving the casino or club.
HB8's brother drove her group and they live 1.5 hours away from the casino and plan to drive home the same night. She does not want to leave her older brother and kept mentioning that she barely knows me, but at the same time, she continues to make out with me.
I tell her that I respect her decisions and decide to keep turning her on until she changes her mind. It gets to the point where she is straddling me in the lounge while we are making out. Her tongue is all over the place and she is fucking dry humping me inside the casino. Meanwhile, I cannot persuade her to leave with me.
I am not saying it was a bad night, I just would have preferred to fuck her.
I'd like to know what I could have done differently in this situation. Was she being a tease? Do i need to build more comfort? Was it logistically impossible? It seemed to me like she was definitely attracted to me and comfortable. We spent most of the night together.
She kept giving me shit tests: asking about girlfriends, or making comments about other girls at the lounge (insecurities?)
Also, this is off subject, but what do you guys think about PDA?
I'm going to skip the question about what I think about PDA because it is irrelevant to what you think. The girl that you were with, however, was into you and regardless if you couldn't make anything happen that night, you need to make yourself in charge of the next situation with her. It's that simple. You did a good job.